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  • Raina
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    • Aug 2010
    • 111

    Is there such a thing as too much sex?

    Me and Jeremy are very sexually active, but I think I may be putting my body through a little too much. I did just go to the gyno a few days ago and nothing came back in results as being a concern, but when me and Jeremy are fooling around for a little while I start feeling a bit of pain on the side wall of my vagina. The only thing I can think of is irritation from the friction? We use lube but some positions irritate that spot more and others don't bother it at all.
  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    In answer, I don't think there's such a thing as too much sex (provided you're not, you know, having sex dozens of times a day with multiple partners or something). I'm extensively sexually active lol and I seem to suffer no ill-effects.

    Is Jeremy exceptionally large or something? Only things I can suggest are ignore the pain if it's minor or avoid doing whatever worries that spot. Good luck, and have fun finding out exactly what it is - I'm sure it will take hours of study.

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    • Raina
      Banned
      • Aug 2010
      • 111

      Originally posted by jen1447
      In answer, I don't think there's such a thing as too much sex (provided you're not, you know, having sex dozens of times a day with multiple partners or something). I'm extensively sexually active lol and I seem to suffer no ill-effects.

      Is Jeremy exceptionally large or something? Only things I can suggest are ignore the pain if it's minor or avoid doing whatever worries that spot. Good luck, and have fun finding out exactly what it is - I'm sure it will take hours of study.
      He is a big boy, we've managed to work around it by trying different positions. We think its the way his **** curves since its only bothering that one side inside of me.

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      • kira
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2008
        • 986

        When you have to go to the doctor for painkillers you've had too much sex. :P Actually the smallest person I've been with is the one I ended up at the doctor with because as he put it we were humping like bunnies. It happens even with lube.

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        • kate61
          Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 44

          I wonder how large your man is. Girl I feel for you. Talk to him about it and stay away from painful position. Don't do doggy or man on top

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          • Motorguy
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            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Originally posted by kate61
            I wonder how large your man is. Girl I feel for you. Talk to him about it and stay away from painful position. Don't do doggy or man on top
            I agree sex should not be painful so if it hurts in that position find another one that will not have any pain with it.
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            • Patti-here
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              • Mar 2014
              • 2602

              As long as you're always with the same partner, I don't think there is such a thing as to much sex, unless you're doing it to the point of exhaustion.

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              • kate61
                Member
                • Apr 2014
                • 44

                Then Patty how much is too much sex? Once a month, fortnight, week or day

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                • Little
                  • Feb 2007
                  • 4329

                  Seems like if it's just one spot in your vagina that is getting irritated, you should alternate positions better. If the curve of his tool is really the culprit, switching to a position where it's concentrated on the opposite wall should do the trick - and let you know if friction isn't really the problem.
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                  • Patti-here
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                    • Mar 2014
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                    Originally posted by kate61
                    Then Patty how much is too much sex? Once a month, fortnight, week or day
                    Oh I don't know,, it's up to the individuals involved.

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