[Butterflylily]

hey! ive been around for a while,

Some of you might know me for having problems with my bf, anyway this is another one those.
He seems to have a fear or something about sex, he isn't gay and he has a "penis". Ive felt it.

But anyway,
I think all this has to do with the whole "Vibrator better than Man" (edit).... and its getting to me, cause I've been wanting to be with him and have sex, and i know he does to, but the Buzzing sound is everywhere like every time he touches me .

I feel his hands ( I rarely do), most of the time he has Vibrator around and that's all we've been doing, the closest we got was Oral, from him to me, that's all.

im a little confused and idk, depressed a litle, i was wondering if i could get some help from anyone .

I need both men and women help please.

[masterchief]

Not really clear what your problem is.

NOthing wrong with using a vibrator as a guy. Sometimes it's needed, sometimes it's not. It should be used as an extra tool to help if required.

Most guys will orgasm easily with any kind of help. Girls aint so simple, and need more work. A vibrator does go a long way to speed up the process. It's your body, ask him to do what pleases you during foreplay.

[Butterflylily]

I orgasm quiet easily, I masturbate quiet alot, and i know how my body works etc, but he just wont do anything to me because he believes all i need is a Vibrator to orgasm and to feel good, which is not true .

True..i dont mind him using a Vibrator on me, he has but, theres no love involved, all you hear is the buzz and theres no Emotional Connection when using toys. atleast i believe so.

The Problem is, how to get his fears cured, hes very quiet and shy etc but i have a feeling the Vibrator might be making him feel bad or Insecure or something, ive asked this question a couple of times here, i was wondering if anyone could give me a really good answer.

[Casey715]

Is he a virgin? If not, does he ejaculate quickly? Just TELL him, no vibrator today baby and take control. Don't get out of line with it, if he says no, then stop, understand? But he likes you, you like him. The two of you have gone this far, take it to the next level.

[CharlesV]

Good advice casey

[Casey715]

Good advice casey

Thanks m8, thing is, she would not have to tell me LETS GET IT ON, probably be more like TAKE A CHILL PILL. lol