I had quite a high sex drive when I met him and it became apparent very quickly that he wasn't the same. I thought as a new couple we would be having sex all the time but I had to pretty much convince him once a month to have sex. We weren't doing touching each other at all, just kissing and cuddling and over the years I've had a few crying fits where I've let it get to me and we always say that maybe we will try and spice it up or both make more of an effort and it lasts 1 night and then back to square one.
The past 2 years we have had sex a total of 10 times (I log it in my period app) and even though I should be used to it now, it still affects me and I feel undesirable to be honest. I've tried everything I can think of but nothing sticks.
Any advice welcome! Thank you
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