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I think it depends on the woman and maybe how many times she has had sex along with the size of previous sex partners. Were you able to find out if she had had a lot of prior sex partners? I have never had sex with a virgin woman but I have had a very tight fit several times. The first time took many attempts to enter but once entered, sex was amazing for both of us. After I had ejaculated, she was so tight that the blood would not flow out of my penis so I was stuck in her for maybe ten minutes or more. I was still very sensitive so we didn't do very much. Maybe we talked a bit or cuddled a bit. The second woman was also very tight but not as tight as the other but it still took several attempts to enter her. I thought she was going to pass out she was breathing so hard during sex. After ejaculation I was able to pull out without too much of a problem but she was still tight. We talked and cuddled afterwards.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Also, it could have absolutely nothing to do with size. She could have discomfort for a number of other reasons. She could have recently participated in rough sex and received some tearing and abrasions in her vaginal canal, making this round of intercourse painful.
Was she well-lubricated?
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This was exactly what I was thinking! Lack of experience (as others suggested) could very well play a part but health issues were the first thing I thought of.Also, it could have absolutely nothing to do with size. She could have discomfort for a number of other reasons. She could have recently participated in rough sex and received some tearing and abrasions in her vaginal canal, making this round of intercourse painful.
Was she well-lubricated?
She also could be experiencing some personal health issue that causes vaginal discomfort, including any number of infections.Comment
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In any personal connection, it's critical to place a high priority on consent and honest communication. Always inquire about and respect your partner's comfort zones and boundaries.
Remember that the most important thing is to make sure that both partners feel secure and at ease during private moments, both physically and emotionally.Comment
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