[Kotlik]

I'm very intimate with my girlfriend. We have sex a lot and both of us enjoy it. We're each other's first times time. I finger her a lot before sex and massage her G spot, she likes it, she even likes it when I do it hard (put a lot of pressure) and fast. One day, I wanted to massage her G spot, but when I started, something cracked in there and it was painful for her, so I stopped, I always stop when it's uncomfortable or painful for her. It has been around 3 weeks and it still hurts her when we decide to try it again. Is it something really bad or something that will go away on its own?

[Wednesday L.F.]

I'm very intimate with my girlfriend. We have sex a lot and both of us enjoy it. We're each other's first times time. I finger her a lot before sex and massage her G spot, she likes it, she even likes it when I do it hard (put a lot of pressure) and fast. One day, I wanted to massage her G spot, but when I started, something cracked in there and it was painful for her, so I stopped, I always stop when it's uncomfortable or painful for her. It has been around 3 weeks and it still hurts her when we decide to try it again. Is it something really bad or something that will go away on its own?

Hmmm...nothing should "crack in there." Based on this, a trip to a gyno is overdue. Please encourage her to make an appointment ASAP, or go to an ER if the pain worsens.

Are you certain that you were touching her G-spot and not her urethra? That bit of misdirection is common for less experienced folks and can cause lasting damage if the issue isn't addressed.

[Kayla Lords]

Definitely agree with Wednesday -- when pain persists for more than a little bit, it's time for a trip to the doctor/ER. Even if the pain goes away now, it's possible that there's an injury that might be aggravated again later, and be worse the second time around.

[Kotlik]

Thank you for your response! I really appreciate it. It doesn't hurt her normally, it only hurts her if I put some pressure, but last time I did it, she said it didn't hurt her, so do you think we should go to gyno? I'm really worried about her health, so should we still go or is it fine? Maybe I put some pressure on the urethra, but I'm not sure, maybe I did, maybe I did something wrong this time. Is it something to really worry about?

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

I read that the g-spot doesn't really exist if anybody has any peer reviewed scientific proof feel free to provide a link. Sorry to hear that you partner is in pain.