I used a vibrator for the first time today. My knowledge on masturbation and sex is very little, so I don't even know if I put the vibrator in the right hole, I just put it where I felt the most pleasure. It felt really good, but then I peed everywhere. I have masturbated before (no tools used) and never had that reaction. I need to know if this is normal or if there's something wrong with me.
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Hello SomethingWrongWithMe? The short answer is NO -- there is absolutely nothing wrong with you!
It sounds like perhaps you squirted for the first time when you had your orgasm, which is perfectly healthy and is probably a sign that you were doing everything right.
Squirt can often be yellow and look like pee, but is a mixture of female ejaculate, urine and other substances.
So, don't for a second feel ashamed or even worried that there is anything wrong with you, and rejoice! Not every woman can squirt, and a lot of men find it VERY erotic and sexy, so continue being you and have fun. -
JonnyR That's a relief! I just hope I don't do this every time. I ruined my sheets yesterday ?Comment
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Not only are you completely normal, but it sounds as if you've had some success with your sex toy. That's awesome.
FYI, there are sex blankets sold specifically to use on a bed or furniture during sex or masturbation to protect your sheets and sofas. They look just like any small blankets and are pretty inexpensive. We have a fuzzy one that feels great to lie on naked. Many women, myself included, feel less self-conscious about squirting when we use sex blankets.Comment
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I'm not a doctor, but I can offer some general information that might be helpful. It's important to note that everyone's experiences with masturbation can vary, and sensations can differ depending on the individual. While some people may experience increased pleasure from using a vibrator, it's also possible to accidentally stimulate the urethra, which can lead to the feeling of needing to urinate or even some leakage.Comment
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