I was surprised to find out that when I googled "women last for hours" the word women seemed to be completely ignored and all the results shown related to men high performance. It seems to me we women still have a long way to go. What are your thoughts on this? How long can you last?
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I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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The ability to "last" is unique from person to person, but the emphasis has (always) been on how long men can last -- most likely due to archaic and outdated views society has on virility and manhood. But yes, the reality is that many women (or anyone with a vulva) can "last" a long time, though that's not a hard and fast rule for everyone. Also, women often need a longer warm-up time to achieve arousal and orgasm so the amount of time is increased just by this -- doing all the things it takes to get aroused all "count" as sex, too.Comment
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yes men and women can go for hours as long as she is wet obviously women need to naturally lubricate to keep going still as long as shes dripping wet its all good. to put it vulgerly I used to boink my ex for hours until morning ! Her eyes used freeze with the enjoyment. her head would be buzzing for days.
so yeah no issue having prolonged marathon sex as long as she is aroused and wet.
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If I have to last a long time then I'm not getting fckd right. My bf can make me have multiple orgasms in 15 minsComment
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