Retroactive jealousy?

[AdamFinch]

Retroactive jealousy?

Many years ago when my wife and I were getting together she mentioned having had a short affair with a friend of hers before I met her. Quite recently she mentioned, out of the blue, that he had a small penis. I was puzzled about why she told me this and it aroused my suspicion. I looked him up on Facebook and found an old photo of him. Does this look like a small penis to you? Am I seeing something that isn't there?
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[EmptyNester]

He could be just a "shower" as oppossed to a "grower." Or you just have a massive dong in comparison!

[jane86]

Yes, you're definitely being retroactively - and needlessly - jealous. Anyway you can't tell a penis size through clothes, the bulge you're seeing there might just be how the pants are folding over.

You should just be happy that she didn't say he was massive, then your jealousy might have some grounds. Even then not really, since she clearly chose you over him.

[AdamFinch]

Thanks for both your responses. Emptynester, I know I am not large- I certainly don't make a bulge like that photo seems to show. I think she's just trying to reassure me by downplaying his size. Jane, she didn't say he was massive but the photo makes me think it- hence the jealousy..

[Glasgowgal]

Why are you jealous? Are you concerned that he was a better lover and had a smaller penis? A guy can make his size and abilities immediately worse by being worried about another guy. I've had amazing orgasms with men with smaller ds and women who have no penis! I like to look at a big d but I don't need one to satisfy me

[AdamFinch]

Glasgowgirl, Why am I jealous? I think it's because my first wife got pregnant 3 times during our relationship and only one of the pregnancies was mine. She rarely wanted sex with me but obviously someone else did it for her. So I'm not concerned that he had a small D but the opposite, because that photo seems to show a large one. My sexual self esteem seems to be very focused in my D. I guess I'm concerned that my current wife used to like them on the large side, which is what I think this photo is suggesting.