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Out of curiosity, what makes you so sure he has ED? Is he not getting hard to begin with or not staying hard during the deed? Is this a new occurrence or has it been going on for a while? Does it happen regularly or sporadically?
There can be a myriad of things that can lead to what i call "periods of non-arousal" for both men and women. No matter what, one of the best things I can recommend is to communicate with your partner and find ways to change your sex game up a bit. That's what worked for me.
I thought I had ED before. It turns out I was just bored with doing the same old things every time. My wife and I made a few minor changes, it doesn't have to be anything drastic, and I was back in there... literally.
My point is that even if this is a true medical case of ED, there are a plethora of things you and your partner can do to overcome this and still have a completely satisfying sex life.Comment
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Very true. Even one small tweak to your usual routine can make a world of difference in arousal.Out of curiosity, what makes you so sure he has ED? Is he not getting hard to begin with or not staying hard during the deed? Is this a new occurrence or has it been going on for a while? Does it happen regularly or sporadically?
There can be a myriad of things that can lead to what i call "periods of non-arousal" for both men and women. No matter what, one of the best things I can recommend is to communicate with your partner and find ways to change your sex game up a bit. That's what worked for me.
I thought I had ED before. It turns out I was just bored with doing the same old things every time. My wife and I made a few minor changes, it doesn't have to be anything drastic, and I was back in there... literally.
My point is that even if this is a true medical case of ED, there are a plethora of things you and your partner can do to overcome this and still have a completely satisfying sex life.Comment
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