[bzmum6]

I guess what bothers me, isn't that it's painful because he is gentle and loving and it does feel nice. It's that I can't climax from it, but for me, it is also that way with any other position so far except missionary and on top. It's like the difference of having a great back rub, or losing yourself to another dimension.

[cam_p]

From a man's point of view my wife of 25 yrs has gone from occasionally giving me anal for my pleasure to actually enjoying it fully and using a dildo to self satisfy herself more fully and from my point of view we have recently purchased a dildo and she has enjoyed doing anal on me and we are looking forward to some really good times. So perserve and if you both enjoy each other thing will get really good.

[SorridLives]

I guess what bothers me, isn't that it's painful because he is gentle and loving and it does feel nice. It's that I can't climax from it, but for me, it is also that way with any other position so far except missionary and on top. It's like the difference of having a great back rub, or losing yourself to another dimension.

Not to be graphic- ...but......if you use a vibrator/dildo very fast in your vagina at the same time as he is inside you (rear), that might help. Worth a try. That is what I am going to do next. LOL