[shweedart]

when me and my boyfriend first started having sex it was upto 4 times a day....now i have to ask him for it once! All he wants are blowjobs
he doesnt go down on me anymore he doesnt finger me and its really beginning to me off! It's starting to knock my confidence too (which i dont have much of anyway) because keeps saying 'i cant be bothered'...For Christ sake...we're 17! Your supposed to be pestering me at this age not vice versa

arggg

He said to be earlier 'sorry for being lazy lately' so i asked him why he'd been lazy and he simply sait 'i dunno'


he's impossible

[damd]

As something that Anon would say, Dump him!

Life is too d*mn short and you are way too young to waste your time on someone who is not sexual fulfilling.

There are way to many guys out there. Or many more fish in the sea. (something like that)

[rcoreyus]

You will probably be happier with someone with a similar sex drive. You can have a long term relationship with someone with a very different sex drive, but it is very frustrating - as I know from first hand experience. Unless he is absolutely the man of your dreams, you should probably find someone else.

[Hystorm]

...What they said!...

[anonymouswhitefemale]

What a saussage fest this thread is...

But well, yeah, life's a bit too short... It doesn't seem like it at the moment but you should be humping like rabbits while you've got the opportunity.

Give him a little time to change then move on. Explain to him that you have needs, that his laziness is quashing, blah blah.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Your such a gorgeous looking woman with soul and heart, if he can't stand the heat, tell him to get out of your kitchen simple.

[Fallen1]

What a saussage fest this thread is...

LOL!

But well, yeah, life's a bit too short... It doesn't seem like it at the moment but you should be humping like rabbits while you've got the opportunity.

Give him a little time to change then move on. Explain to him that you have needs, that his laziness is quashing, blah blah.

Agreed. Give him time to see if things turn around and then if not you might want to move along. The odds are it will only get worse the older he gets.

[Richard S]

This one's easy.

My wife and I used to have fights because she thought I was selfish for wanting oral too much. Guys *always* want oral. I taught her the trick of being a tease.

When you give him head, just lick and suck around the shaft, stay away from the head, and avoid getting into a steady rhythm. Like I said, be a tease. Then drop the un-subtle hint, "Doing this makes me so wet."

If that doesn't make him want to put it in you, he's ex-boyfriend material.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

when me and my boyfriend first started having sex it was upto 4 times a day....now i have to ask him for it once! All he wants are blowjobs
he doesnt go down on me anymore he doesnt finger me and its really beginning to me off! It's starting to knock my confidence too (which i dont have much of anyway) because keeps saying 'i cant be bothered'...For Christ sake...we're 17! Your supposed to be pestering me at this age not vice versa

arggg

He said to be earlier 'sorry for being lazy lately' so i asked him why he'd been lazy and he simply sait 'i dunno'


he's impossible

LAZY... So what's he like outside of sex? Does he smoke naughty stuff

Well???

Why would a guy only want bj's and nothing more, unless you want lots and lots of attention before entering, and he can't be bothered, all too hard, that's WORK...

Then he is not going to change later down the track, to liking to please his woman, he will always see that side as a "CHORE"...

You've only just begun, match them right little one.

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Smoking naughty stuff can make sex amazing, by the way Chandler...

And mdma/ecstacy can make it completely unreal...

But anyway, yeah, laziness isn't good.