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  • Jade83
    Member
    • Jul 2008
    • 15

    Just curious!!!

    Ladies, do you all prefer for your guy to go down on you first or just want to be ******? Do you prefer gentle or rough?
  • talk time
    Senior Member
    • Jun 2008
    • 134

    Oral first really gets me in the mood and as for rough or gentle it depends how I am feeling at the time. They both have there place for me anyway.

    tt

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    • miffed23
      Veteran Member
      • Mar 2008
      • 568

      Originally posted by Jade83
      Ladies, do you all prefer for your guy to go down on you first or just want to be ******? Do you prefer gentle or rough?
      Yep, as talk time said, its mood dependant. If im horny as heck, sometimes i dont want any foreplay and usually then i prefer things to be rough.

      Oral is always a bonus, however if im in the above mood, it can wind me up if the process goes on for too long. Haha, i sound so ungrateful....

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      • mandy47
        Member
        • Nov 2007
        • 17

        I agree with talk time and miffed23. It all depends on my mood that day.

        Oral sex is pure bliss for me....I love it, but sometimes I just really want penetration. I usually have rough sex more often when it's more spontaneous...like passion and lust just takes over and you couldn't resist giving in if you tried. I rarely have rough sex after cuddling, then a long session of foreplay.

        I have to say I love it all.

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        • Phoebee
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2008
          • 238

          Mostly oral sex first then intercourse right away. He tried doing in in reverse but he does not care for the taste of him at all. *I don't care for him kissing me after he does Oral for what its worth for the same reason...
          "Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got." ~ Janis Joplin

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          • rosalee
            Member
            • Aug 2008
            • 27

            well it's been a while for me lol but i needed oral stimulation to orgasm. and i always liked ot rough only.

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            • shweedart
              Veteran Member
              • Feb 2008
              • 679

              id much rather he went down on me first, makes it more likely that i'll come

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              • SorridLives
                Veteran Member
                • Nov 2007
                • 397

                I usually like finger foreplay first, for myself....and occasionally some oral. Husband likes plenty of oral.

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                • anonymouswhitefemale
                  Veteran Member
                  • Sep 2007
                  • 1343

                  A mans point of view;

                  Always oral first. Well, almost always.

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