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  • whenkissescollide
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2008
    • 9

    Everytime i bleed... help?

    ok, i'm an openly gay female. and my fiance and i started having more sex here recently after we moved into our new home. we are both only 17, but we live together. after we started having more sex we both noticed that when we do have sex i tend to bleed alittle. is this a bad thing? i'm not sure. help?
    thanks for ur time.
    ♥Faces In Disguise♥
  • sourpuss
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2006
    • 3581

    Is there pain as well?

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    • silvertae
      Senior Member
      • Aug 2008
      • 197

      And what kind of sex are you having? Sex using dildos? Just fingers? Lots of fingers? Strictly clitoral stimulation? Need more info to help!

      My first guess is usually tiny cuts from your partner's fingernails/hangnails/callouses, etc.
      Well some people say that you shouldn't tempt fate, and for them I can not disagree. But I never learned nothing from playing it safe; I say fate should not tempt me. I take my chances.

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      • whenkissescollide
        Junior Member
        • Aug 2008
        • 9

        no pain really. but we use just fingers. but i worry, cause she does have longer nails.
        ♥Faces In Disguise♥

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        • shweedart
          Veteran Member
          • Feb 2008
          • 679

          That's most likely the reason then...especially in the heat of the moment and she's really going to town on you! Get her to trim them just once and see if the bleeding stops

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          • whenkissescollide
            Junior Member
            • Aug 2008
            • 9

            thank you! u guys help me alot!
            ♥Faces In Disguise♥

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            • The_Legend
              Junior Member
              • Sep 2008
              • 4

              Every one is here for help dear..........
              ..........Love is a SWeeT Pain..........
              ...................ANd I Want iT...............

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              • whenkissescollide
                Junior Member
                • Aug 2008
                • 9

                well the bleed has stopped because we try not to be so rough. and i've realized that slow and passionate sometimes is better. :-)))
                thanks
                ♥Faces In Disguise♥

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                • withered_rose
                  Senior Member
                  • Jul 2008
                  • 141

                  slow and passionate sometimes is the best, especially if its more often, and it never hurts to change things up every once in a while.

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