[SorridLives]

Anybody have those days (or remember for those not in a serious relationship) when sex is 50% or 75% better than a just "good" day! I had one yesterday. What makes those days? Frame of mind? Horniness?
I really got in tune with my husband's body yesterday, I think. It was wonderful! He orgasmed in a position he only rarely orgasms in. It just keeps getting better!

[myteddy14me]

Hi there♥

May I ask What position it is? I am also married and trying out new positions is so much fun for us. I think that's a great question. I'm not sure if it is a state of mind or horniness but Sometimes it seems that way. There will be that one day where their skin feels so good on yours as if you've never felt it before or you wont ever feel it again and every second of it is passionate and arousing. I love those days. I guess it is a state of mind. It's amazing how much control our mind has over our bodies. In that case "Control On"!!!

[SorridLives]

May I ask What position it is? I am also married and trying out new positions is so much fun for us. I think that's a great question. I'm not sure if it is a state of mind or horniness but Sometimes it seems that way. There will be that one day where their skin feels so good on yours as if you've never felt it before or you wont ever feel it again and every second of it is passionate and arousing. I love those days. I guess it is a state of mind. It's amazing how much control our mind has over our bodies. In that case "Control On"!!!

Exactly! Different feelings at different times. The mind is a powerful thing! It is girl ontop position. He loves it, but will only orgasm in that position rarely. He likes control to reach climax and I am more in control on the top. My body was really in tune with his yesterday.

[miffed23]

This is so true... wonder if it has anything to do with hormones? Would be interesting (if not a little weird) to keep note of those amazing times...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I was actually taught by a "life coach" and "phycologist", pertaining to sex, the (3) ways in which our body reacts...

SEXUAL
HORNY
SENSUAL

The key that he tought, was to remain in a constant state of sensuality daily...

It was actually a tough thing to do, and it is all mindset but I actually achieved it for about a Month..

The mindset, then when with your partner and in love/lust either, allows you to be extremely sensual, sexual and horny all at the same time but with the percentage factor being higher in the sensual side....

Being in a sensual state, you also feel sexy, beautiful and so, as you engage in making love, your mind set is totally different, than say (I want sex) and that engagement is again a totally different situation, there you are concentrating on wanting that feeling, but with sensuality you are being, there is no concentration, just being...

CW

[SorridLives]

This is so true... wonder if it has anything to do with hormones? Would be interesting (if not a little weird) to keep note of those amazing times...

Yes. I might try to keep track as to what time of month it is.

[SorridLives]

I was actually taught by a "life coach" and "phycologist", pertaining to sex, the (3) ways in which our body reacts...

SEXUAL
HORNY
SENSUAL

The key that he tought, was to remain in a constant state of sensuality daily...

It was actually a tough thing to do, and it is all mindset but I actually achieved it for about a Month..

The mindset, then when with your partner and in love/lust either, allows you to be extremely sensual, sexual and horny all at the same time but with the percentage factor being higher in the sensual side....

Being in a sensual state, you also feel sexy, beautiful and so, as you engage in making love, your mind set is totally different, than say (I want sex) and that engagement is again a totally different situation, there you are concentrating on wanting that feeling, but with sensuality you are being, there is no concentration, just being...

CW

Very interesting! Sensual state. hmpft. I have to think about that some more. I can't say I was so sensual yesterday. I didn't expect to have great sex....I was expecting good sex, but not great. I guess I was horny and feeling good about myself. Didn't expect us to be in sync like that. I wish it would happen more often. Not that sex is not really good....Just sometimes it is beyond what you expect....Pleasant surprise.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

hmpft. I have to think about that some more. I can't say I was so sensual yesterday. I didn't expect to have great sex....I was expecting good sex, but not great. I guess I was horny and feeling good about myself. Didn't expect us to be in sync like that.

Sensual
relating to or consisting in the gratification of the senses or the indulgence of appetite :

What do you mean hmftt? mmm?

So you were:-
SEXUAL
HORNY
SENSUAL: - Feeling good about yourself, gratified of the sexual and horny senses, and you induldged in those appetites..SEXUAL, HORNY & SENSUAL

CW
you to be extremely sensual, sexual and horny all at the same time but with the percentage factor being higher in the sensual side....

hmpft.

[SorridLives]

Sensual
relating to or consisting in the gratification of the senses or the indulgence of appetite :

What do you mean hmftt? mmm?

So you were:-
SEXUAL
HORNY
SENSUAL: - Feeling good about yourself, gratified of the sexual and horny senses, and you induldged in those appetites..SEXUAL, HORNY & SENSUAL



hmpft.

I guess you are right. LOL Your definition of sensual is a little different....self-confidence...feeling good about yourself equaling sensual. Okay, I guess I can adapt that definition somewhat. hmpft is hmpft! hmpft! You sure are grouchy...LOL...Or are you being a beaaaaaaaaachhhhhhhhh again?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh for goodness sake...

pfttt....

Just bloody enjoy it and work out you did it and do it again will you already.