[rosalee]

I was reading the post below regarding the pulling out technique and it has me wondering, isnt is less satisfying for a man to have to 1) worry about when to pull out and 2)pull out and finish off himself???

Okay, this is bad but my bf and i used that method when we used to have sex. so when he was ready, he would take it out and finish off super fast....annoyed me but he said that is made difference. any thoughts???

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'll let the guys answer the sensation of finishing themselves, however, this is just as "non" full proof as the other threader's question.

All, you need is one little drop and out that little one will pop, well some 9 months later.

Don't let the next boyfriend use this method, unless your on birth control.

CW

[Livelaughlove]

1) worry about when to pull out and

It is a big worry and a constant burden. To the point where it can effect our performance.

Id much rather have the security of a condom. Even with birth control It would require me to trust her.

2)pull out and finish off himself???

This isn't a question what do you want me to answer?

Withdrawal is not a method of preventing pregnancy Many of my friend depended on this and now are fathers

Live laugh and love

[rosalee]

thanks cw..but im still with the same man, he's just have a hard time having sex now. but i'm wouldnt promote this method either. i havent has sex for over a year but next time that we do,im def makng him use a condom. i have had lots of scary trouble with birth control,so much that i will never use it again...but im not having sex anyway lol.

i just thought it was funny that my bf says is makes no difference to him on pulling out,its too much a hassel if you ask me...

[Hystorm]

Ummmm....you have not had sex in over a year....any you are not married?

[anonymouswhitefemale]

If it wasn't for the fact that the pull out method doesn't work, I'd use it. The trouble is, that I half orgasm and ejaculate sometimes before the proper orgasm anyway, meaning that even before the orgasm she could've got pregnant.

Condoms are more rubbish in my opinion than worrying about finishing the orgasm myself, or ultimately better being finished by oral, but maybe I'm a bit weird.

[WildChild]

This just doesn't make sense, no sex in a year but the next time you have it... What is this the once every 18 months plan, whether you need it or not? Why is he having problems? Aside from the hassle of this pulling out stuff what is going on?
What birth control have you tried? There are so many options now, get into a clinic and get educated, there has to be something you can use. For such infrequent sex a diaphram might be a good choice. Maybe if there wasn't so much pregnancy worry and messing around with pulling out and who knows what you might both actually enjoy sex and decide to up it to, what? A couple times a year?

Sorry, I just don't get it. Why are you two together? I get a sense of something else going on. None of my business really but when you post it you put it out in the world and it's open to discussion.

[rosalee]

he's very depressed and just has so desire to do anything, he doesnt even wake up til 5 every day cuz he's so depressed. it had effected everything including his sex drive...