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  • edln
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 2

    Dildo shape - Girth at Top VS. Base

    Hi everybody it is great to be here!

    I just had a quick question regarding the shape of a dildo (or penis) - Consider two toys, each with a 1 3/8" wide base girth. However, toy A flares out to 1 5/8" at the top and then narrows to 1 3/8" at the base, but toy B gradually reaches the maximum girth of 1 3/8" at the base. When fully inserting these, would toy A feel smaller than toy B (even if toy A has the same base girth and is overall larger in girth...does the flare "spoil" the sensitive vaginal opneing for the relatively smaller base)?

    As a toy user I am curious about this just for the sake of more knowledge, but I also am shaped this way (narrows to the base) and was afraid that with my shape the further I penetrate, the less girth there is in the sensitive front parts of the vagina, so my in-strokes would feel less filling than objects with the same base girth but better shapes...

    ...is this a correct understanding of the situation, and if so what sorts of techniques can I use to make up for my shape?

    Thanks for the help, and again its great to be here!
  • edln
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 2

    Thanks for the response!

    so a toy or penis with a thicker front part of the shaft won't make the narrower base feel smaller than it would in other shapes?

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    • waya
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2010
      • 206

      You could always do more of the shallow strokes with occasional full thrusts for the deep feeling

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      • NancyS
        Junior Member
        • Jul 2011
        • 6

        I think some experimenting with both is in order.
        My husband's penis head is quite large--significantly thicker than most of his shaft, but he does get extremely thick at the base, and when he does the "almost taking it all the way out" stroke before plunging it all the way in, it does feel very nice.
        So maybe the answer is to find a toy that's wide at both the tip and the base!

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