[SimpleSam]

Good day everyone,
I was wondering if anybody out there has had experience with male chastity play with their partner?
My wife and I started this about a year and a half ago after hearing about it on a radio show. We’ve have had quite a bit of fun with it to-date. I should mention that we are totally “vanilla” =P

We don’t play with chastity because of infidelity or deep submissive/cuckold play or anything like that. We just enjoy spicing things up. We treat it as a fun sex game that can be stretched over a longer period of time. She’ll tell me to lock up sometimes a few days a month, sometimes a few weeks a month, on and off.

When she has me locked up it can be exhilarating for me, you get so horny due to frustration that it’s like being a teenager again. I would bend over backwards to end the frustration. She gets a lot of attention in the form of massages and special treats as I try to buy my freedom. Eventually we have mind-blowing sex and put it away for a while until we’re in the mood again. There are 4-6 days a month that she especially enjoys the extra attention, and maybe being a little cruel =P

It seems that the worst thing you can do when it comes to this type of play is Google it! The extremists speak very loudly and I could see that people could be turned off by all the nonsense out there. I’m sure that there are tons of normal people like us out there, I just don’t know where they exist.

I know from some articles that it appears to be a growing trend, with companies stating sales in the hundreds of thousands. Have you ever heard of it? Would you ever try? Are we weirdos?

[SimpleSam]

Based on the 900 views on this thread and not one reply, I am left to draw my own conclusions. I think this subject may still be a bit “taboo” but there is obviously lots of curiosity.

Unless a conversation starts up, I will leave you with this as a final thought:

This is a fantastic way to spice things up for couples that want to try something totally new or might be in a sexual rut. We have 2-3x more sex than we ever did since we started doing this for a few reasons: I don’t have the option of masturbating whenever I want so I am saving my energy for her. Having the device on is a constant reminder that she is paying attention to me on some level so it builds excitement. She gets loads of positive attention with back/foot rubs and help around the house so she gets more warmed up to sex more often.

Start with a cheaper plastic or generic device from one of the main vendors or even eBay. If you get into it, invest in a metal one down the road (not the whole belt thing, just the tube). The plastic ones are great to start but they require more attention for cleaning etc. As a guy it’s really not painful, it’s more of a “snug” feeling. It can get a bit more intense when it’s restricting an erection but I don’t classify it as painful… just an overwhelming want to be let out. I think you’d be amazed at home much fun you and your partner can have when you re-introduce some healthy sexual tension.

[Claret]

I believe that people other than forum members can read and view any post. They are not able to comment until they become a forum member. Congratulations on finding something that you find so exciting, not everyone will have the same view of this activity. But, if it's something that excites you and your partner, cudos to you.

[Rhonda14]

I read almost all posts but I don't comment on everything. This does sounds interesting though or at least from my point of view.

[jns]

Look up the posts of JanieMarie: View Profile: JanieMarie - Women's Health Forum

[Harmony]

As a man this is something I would like to try.

[JackbNimble]

I like the idea as well but have had a hard time getting the wife to talk about it. It would be a fun addition to our sex life but doesn't need to be a 24/7 365 days option. Would love to hear more real life experiences from other posters!

[KBCB]

OK I hope I say this right? Male chastity is only enjoyable if both of you are enjoying it! I usually go 3 to 6 weeks without an orgasm. I have a choice and choose not too. I am horny all the time and it does feel so good. She has as much sex as she can handle and orgasms to the point she says "I am done no more". I remain without orgasm because I want to and she is totally OK with that. She does get to the point where my complete orgasm inside is a fulfillment of the ultimate act of intimacy and love. When she needs that she gets it and happy to oblige her. After a long period of denial the orgasm I have are better than anything I have ever had. We play the game our way and only for our fun pleasure and satisfaction. If you experiment only play to the level of fun for both and yes both! 95% of the internet is BS on this subject. Have fun play and see where it takes both of you. I have lots more to share and open to share more if anyone is curious? KBCB

[Element]

You're not weirdos about it. It just depends on each individuals personal liking. I completely understand how it could be likeable. There's teasing, lots of foreplay and then the "explosion" at the end.

Would I try it? If my man wanted to, I'd give it a go. I'm always up for trying new things as long as I understand on some line what's going to happen or what the objective is.

[CoolBreeze]

If you are referring to the restraining devices used on men, then yes it's a corner stone of dominant female role play. It is mostly liked by men, although for dominant ladies it has its own kinks.