[Ms.Lefty]

I'm running into the problem where the clit stimulator of just about every "rabbit" vibrator I've tried is too long for me. I can come when using the Womanizer, but I really enjoy having something inside my vagina at the same time. According to my husband, my G-spot exists, but rather than exciting me, stimulating it only makes me need to pee! So I don't need a huge dildo portion of the vibrator. Any ideas?

[Wednesday L.F.]

You might do better with something more adjustable like the Crescendo from Mystery Vibe. These can bend to ensure it’s hitting your body right where you want it. I find rabbits to be maddeningly inflexible.

[Ms.Lefty]

Thanks for the tip, Wednesday! I'd never heard of the Crescendo before. I'll check it out.

I shelled out the big bucks for the We-Vibe Nova a few years ago, thinking the flexible clit stimulator could be rolled up or folded so it would work. Waste of money for me. The only dual-stim vibe I have found that fits me so far is the cheap, noisy Eden Eros. I hate it - it looks like a penis, for one thing, and I prefer toys that aren't realistic.

Yesterday, I read that one solution might be to buy a vibrating **** ring that has a clit stim attached, and put it on one of my many G-spot vibes (which I love, even though I seem to have an unresponsive G-spot). I'd love to try this on my Impulse E-stim "petite" G wand ... I love the electric stimulation. It reminds me of the machines they use for physical therapy - only for your ladyparts.

[Alison H.]

Yesterday, I read that one solution might be to buy a vibrating **** ring that has a clit stim attached, and put it on one of my many G-spot vibes (which I love, even though I seem to have an unresponsive G-spot).

That's a brilliant idea I've never thought of...!

I have also found rabbit vibrators to be hit or miss. The LELO INA Wave 2 seems to have a narrow space between the shaft and the external clit stimulator, although I have never used it personally. https://www.womens-health.com/lelo-ina-wave-2-review

My go-to rabbit is a thrusting/warming vibrator from Adam & Eve, that although on the "small" side (narrow shaft, shorter clit stim), fits me perfectly. The clit tickler is not as long as most, which is why I think it works so well. But you might be better off trying the **** ring on a G-spot vibrator trick, since it'll be 100% adjustable for you (and hopefully hit just the right spot in the process).

I have a similar "issue" with my G-spot... it does absolutely nothing for me (and stimulation makes me feel like I need to pee), until I have an orgasm. From THAT point onward, it's like a switch is flipped... and it becomes magical. But not a moment before.

[Ms.Lefty]

Alison H., are you allowed to give the name/model of the vibe from Adam & Eve that you use?

[Kayla Lords]

I'm not a fan of rabbit vibes for a similar reason. One style I like is often known as a "couples vibrator" because it can be used/worn during penetrative sex but it's the kind that is C-shaped so that the internal part sits inside of you and snuggly reaches your clit. The one I like the best is We-Vibe Chorus, but that works best if you use it during penetrative sex. We-Vibe has other styles, though, that might work best for solo use. They tend to be a hands-free kind of option, which is another reason I like that style.

[EmptyNester]

Kayla - what is your partner's feedback when using the Chorus? What is the fit like for him? Just not sure I could get inside my wife with something already there. Curious...

[Alison H.]

Alison H., are you allowed to give the name/model of the vibe from Adam & Eve that you use?

I thought we might have had it listed in one of our reviews but it was a different one (similar color, but not quite the same) — https://www.womens-health.com/adam-eve-rabbit-vibrators — the model I use is the Adam & Eve Heat Me Up Warming Rabbit Thruster. I hope it never dies LOL.

[Ms.Lefty]

Thank you, Alison! It's still available.