[commonsense]

Never loved anyone, never said it.

I find that odd. Did you do that on purpose to protect your heart?
Do you want to ever love someone?

[commonsense]

[quote=withered_rose;55906]I don't really know if this is directed to the men on the forum or not lol,

I was particularly directing it at the men because most men don't like to or have trouble expressing their feelings. Anyone with an opinion can respond though.

[megpie]

In my experience, men have had a hard time expressing their good feelings. But don't seem to have a problem expressing their bad feelings.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

I'd quite like to be in love with someone, it just hasn't ever happened.

I'm a bit too cynical perhaps.

[Guest]

in addition to "love" or loving someone, there's more than one "in love" or "falling in love". The best way to describe it was something said on Frazier (remember that show?). He said, "you don't just love your children, you fall in love with them!" I think you can fall in love with someone without the romance or sex, but it's a very tough place to be at and can go awry real easily.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I am very free with that word, but with meaning.

I love to love.

So, I will say with no problem at all, I love you..

It is interesting though, now that I think back, where men are concerned, often it would be " love you too"... a closing of my comment, as apposed to his words spoken to me.

In bed? I have never, ever, ever, heard my ex, or past relationships state that, but I was aware that they "did"...

It seems to be an "emotional word" and consequently, women utilise it more so I believe than a man would, or does.

Just my thoughts.

CW

[commonsense]

I am very free with that word, but with meaning.

I love to love.

So, I will say with no problem at all, I love you..

It is interesting though, now that I think back, where men are concerned, often it would be " love you too"... a closing of my comment, as apposed to his words spoken to me.

In bed? I have never, ever, ever, heard my ex, or past relationships state that, but I was aware that they "did"...

It seems to be an "emotional word" and consequently, women utilise it more so I believe than a man would, or does.

Just my thoughts.


CW

I would agree with that. One even said "ditto" to me. Which I definitely did not like.

[rcoreyus]

I say it and mean it (randomly during the day or during sex). It isn't something I specifically think about, just seems natural. I've only ever said it to one person though. (not counting grandmothers when I was a tiny kid).

[PB-J]

I say it once i am in love. I can like someone without loving that person

[Franciz84]

Whether we had a physical contact or not, if find it easy to say I LOVE YOU to my love one. =)