Hey guys,
I need your opinion on the following situation. I am trying to understand the behavior of someone for who I am developing some strong feelings. We have known each other for about 7 months now; we were working together until very recently. He has recently found a new job. I am trying to understand the kind of interest that he may have for me.
Here are some elements that I observe from his behavior.
1-While we were working together, he used to stop by my office everyday before leaving work. This ain’t really a sign as he had to pass by my desk to get out of the building, but he would usually stay at my desk for about 10 minutes everyday, sometimes longer. He would usually look at me with a big smile and his eyes were always engage in his smile.
2-His pupils are always dilated when he his looking at me.
3-His body his usually leaning towards me when we are together.
4-He usually always looks at me directly in the eyes.
5-His eyes are usually wide open and there are always glowing when he is with me.
6-He always gives me a “high five” when he leaves. His “high fives” are usually fairly long. They usually end by our hands sliding into one another very gently and softly and it will usually end when only the tips of our fingers are touching. We definitely have time to feel each other’s skin. He usually looks at me in the eyes when he gives me a “high five”.
7-This one time, I went to grab his new sunglasses that were on top of his head and when my hand touched his head, he slowly closed his eyes and smiled. He kept his eyes closed until my hand wasn’t touching him anymore.
8-When we are walking together, it seems like he always tries to find a way of touching me. He will push me a little, we will wrestle a little bit and sometimes he will put his arm around my neck or my shoulder while still walking.
9-Since he switched job about 2 weeks ago, we have not seen each other. We live in two different town and I do not have a car. Although, we are talking almost everyday on MSN and he is texting my cell phone almost everyday.
The reason why I am asking for an opinion of what it could be is because his behavior sometime shows the opposite. We slept together one night, that happened about 3 months ago now, but nothing went further after that night. Although, the signs mentioned above are still present and even more apparent. He tells me all the time to text him if I want to hang out after work, but when I do so nothing happens. He always answers back but we never end up hanging out. Forgot to mention, we are both 23 years old and he lives for skateboarding...if that can help
Please give an opinion…if you guys needs more details…I have tones available, just ask. Lol
Thanks,
Jane
I need your opinion on the following situation. I am trying to understand the behavior of someone for who I am developing some strong feelings. We have known each other for about 7 months now; we were working together until very recently. He has recently found a new job. I am trying to understand the kind of interest that he may have for me.
Here are some elements that I observe from his behavior.
1-While we were working together, he used to stop by my office everyday before leaving work. This ain’t really a sign as he had to pass by my desk to get out of the building, but he would usually stay at my desk for about 10 minutes everyday, sometimes longer. He would usually look at me with a big smile and his eyes were always engage in his smile.
2-His pupils are always dilated when he his looking at me.
3-His body his usually leaning towards me when we are together.
4-He usually always looks at me directly in the eyes.
5-His eyes are usually wide open and there are always glowing when he is with me.
6-He always gives me a “high five” when he leaves. His “high fives” are usually fairly long. They usually end by our hands sliding into one another very gently and softly and it will usually end when only the tips of our fingers are touching. We definitely have time to feel each other’s skin. He usually looks at me in the eyes when he gives me a “high five”.
7-This one time, I went to grab his new sunglasses that were on top of his head and when my hand touched his head, he slowly closed his eyes and smiled. He kept his eyes closed until my hand wasn’t touching him anymore.
8-When we are walking together, it seems like he always tries to find a way of touching me. He will push me a little, we will wrestle a little bit and sometimes he will put his arm around my neck or my shoulder while still walking.
9-Since he switched job about 2 weeks ago, we have not seen each other. We live in two different town and I do not have a car. Although, we are talking almost everyday on MSN and he is texting my cell phone almost everyday.
The reason why I am asking for an opinion of what it could be is because his behavior sometime shows the opposite. We slept together one night, that happened about 3 months ago now, but nothing went further after that night. Although, the signs mentioned above are still present and even more apparent. He tells me all the time to text him if I want to hang out after work, but when I do so nothing happens. He always answers back but we never end up hanging out. Forgot to mention, we are both 23 years old and he lives for skateboarding...if that can help
Please give an opinion…if you guys needs more details…I have tones available, just ask. Lol
Thanks,
Jane
). Btw that thing with the skating in common is great! Am... I also send a lot of text messages to my girlfriend and we chat a lot in Skype but I feel much closer to her when we talk. Why don't you try to call him? Be more self-confident and make a bigger step. Men like being flattered, too. And all those funny and "sweet" things he does - the lil wrestling and biting - great! Do sth like this urself 
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