[Joy]

you call him a player....... don't hate the player hate the game.... omg u wanna send him nasty emails, change your relationship status on FB... who is playing who here?

If you conduct all your relationships this way then they are doomed to blow up and leave u feeling empty each time. Before you critisize his behavior examine your own.

You have give what you want in life and if that is love then start there.

[Guest]

you asked for the changes if any.............. here is one:

erase it all and just type the following:
hey, i enjoyed the times we had spent together, hope your holiday went well and maybe when things settle down a bit we can hangout again.

thats it............ as the another one said before, you do sound desperate and bitter at the same time. its your fault of letting him shag with you to quick if you get attatch like that. you shold have let more time go by. I am not blaming you at all in that regaurd, just saying you shagged too, not just him.
now if he did use you just for the quickie, well then he isnt worth it. and you just had a night with some fun. enjoy it.
its fun meeting people and getting along, getting to know them, and all the new things that come from a fresh new beginning. but you have to chill out a bit. you will scare him away if he wants to see more.
who knows why he didnt contact you yet, but if you send him anything like you wanted to, he most deffinately will not contact you ever unless its to tell you to f-off.
he might actually have been busy.

so far everyone here is right. good answers from all.
little with the dont give him the pleasure and play it cool.......(good advice, take it).
no1 with the give it more time...........................................(do just that)
CW with ................. do you need a guy like that................(if that is true he used you, then do you need him)
uneek with the to desperate and insecure............(you sound like that if you send that message)

[Tuesday]

Well how did it go? Did you send it?