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  • Whatwhatwhat
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2009
    • 2

    He maybe a shy, he may think you couldn't possibly be interested in him.
    Guys like that are a dime a dozen.

    If he doesn't take the clue, and can't take a hint, move on. It is not right of you to deny all the men out there your fabulous presence and feminine charms. Make no excuses for your wants and needs as a woman, as he should not as a man.

    Make it your mission to meet ten new people a day and that way, this one won't seem like such a big deal and when the right best one comes along, you'll know it.

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    • bcnu
      Member
      • Mar 2009
      • 10

      Is there another moment in the day that you might find him NOT on the way to somewhere else?

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      • sourpuss
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2006
        • 3581

        Originally posted by Whatwhatwhat
        He maybe a shy, he may think you couldn't possibly be interested in him.
        Guys like that are a dime a dozen.

        If he doesn't take the clue, and can't take a hint, move on. It is not right of you to deny all the men out there your fabulous presence and feminine charms. Make no excuses for your wants and needs as a woman, as he should not as a man.

        Make it your mission to meet ten new people a day and that way, this one won't seem like such a big deal and when the right best one comes along, you'll know it.

        You know, you're right. I think I'm just going to go about my business and if it comes up that he asks me to do something then that would be great. If not, then no big deal.

        I realized yesterday that I was spending way too much time thinking about it and trying to figure out a way to talk to him and all that. From now on I'm just going to do my thing and eventually someone will come along that is interested in me the same as I am in them.

        That's not to say I won't try to be a little more outgoing and friendly. I think that's 1/2 my problem. I'm always in my own world and never make eye contact or small talk with anyone. Maybe that should be my first goal.

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          Sounds like a good idea! I'm starting to try to get out more too. Guess too many of us give up our options and lock ourselves in?

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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            "I'm too sexy for my boots" - something like that it was a song.

            Madam... You are good looking, your body is to die for, neither should come into the equation cause your not after sex are you? haha.

            But, it is my belief that if you hold your head high, and smile, "the eyes tell the story"...

            That in my opinion is as good enough hint that your interested that it can be... If he has women swarming over him, goo goo gaa gaa, seriously, he would be peeved that here is a woman whom doesn't give a ... holds her own and knows how to smile when she says hi ..

            If he doesn't make the move, then it's his loss.....

            We act like school children sometimes, omg how do i do this, how to i get him to ... oh i can't stop thinking of him, dreams, you name it....

            CHILL haha... hold your posture, smile..... you'd probably be the only one that doesn't, hasn't approached him and he will find that endearing.
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • sourpuss
              Veteran Member
              • Dec 2006
              • 3581

              Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
              "I'm too sexy for my boots" - something like that it was a song.

              Madam... You are good looking, your body is to die for, neither should come into the equation cause your not after sex are you? haha.

              But, it is my belief that if you hold your head high, and smile, "the eyes tell the story"...

              That in my opinion is as good enough hint that your interested that it can be... If he has women swarming over him, goo goo gaa gaa, seriously, he would be peeved that here is a woman whom doesn't give a ... holds her own and knows how to smile when she says hi ..

              If he doesn't make the move, then it's his loss.....

              We act like school children sometimes, omg how do i do this, how to i get him to ... oh i can't stop thinking of him, dreams, you name it....

              CHILL haha... hold your posture, smile..... you'd probably be the only one that doesn't, hasn't approached him and he will find that endearing.

              You crack me up! My friend said the same exact thing yesterday!
              You gals are right. I'm following your advice and if it works on this particular person, then great, if not, no big deal.

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              • sourpuss
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2006
                • 3581

                Oh...and thank you for the compliments. **blushing** Maybe I should hire you as my rep.

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