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Thanks to everyone who replied to my post. I have some new perspectives on how to look at this situation.
He just wants to make sure everything is stable financially. I won't give up on him. I love him way too much.

Good for you. An engagement and impending wedding is a huge financial obligation for a man these days. With these overpriced wedding vendors, I don't know how people do it.

Another thing to note...I did extensive research on diamonds before I bought my fiance's ring. I wanted to make sure that I was making a good investment as well as purchasing and outstanding gift. So i ended up purchasing an investment grade diamond which wasn't cheap. If you do research yourself, you will see just how expensive a good diamond is. My fiance was mind boggled at the prices.

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ever see that movie blood diamond? good movie.