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  • Suzanne02
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 5

    He's so confusing :-(

    There's this guy that I've known for ages through friends, and I always knew he liked me because he was so obvious about it, but I never had an interest in him. He is a really sweet guy and he is known to treat girls really well. But I never thought he was for me.
    Then recently he kept asking me out on a date, so eventually I gave in and surprisingly, I had a really good time with him. Then over the course of 2 wks after that we spent a lot of time together and I started to like him more and more. When we weren't together, we were texting constantly. Sometimes he would just send little texts with kisses on them :-).

    Then, all of a sudden, I stop hearing from him! He went away for the weekend to visit his brother abroad, and I didn't hear from him at all while he was over there. Then he got home last night and I still haven't heard a thing from him. I texted him to see how is weekend was but didn't get any reply.

    I am so confused because he goes from really making me feel special and making it really obvious that he really likes me ( I even told my friends that I loved how there was no 'game-playing' at all) to just no contact at all!

    I'm trying to think back but I can't think of anything I might have done wrong. We were only getting to know each other, and this has been over the course of only 2 wks, so we haven't even done anything other that kiss.

    I just can't understand how everything has changed so suddenly!
    An outside opinion would be greatly appreciated, maybe I'm missing something here.

    Thanks so much :-)
  • amaranthine
    Senior Member
    • Apr 2009
    • 118

    He just got back, so give him some time. He was abroad, so he probably turned his phone off, since most cell phones don't work abroad. Cell phones also need to be off on planes. He probably didn't turn it back on yet.

    Relax.
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    • Tina Lee
      Member
      • Jun 2009
      • 75

      I would give him a couple of days to settle in at home.

      Cellphones do have some areas where they lose their signal. Anyway, give him some time.
      "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."

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      • Suzanne02
        Junior Member
        • Jul 2009
        • 5

        His phone definitely works abroad though. He texted me the last time he was there. And he got my text messege because it delivered to his phone. It's been a day and a half now. There is definitely something up because if everything was ok he wouldn't go this long without contact.

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        • CHANDLERS WISH
          • Mar 2008
          • 22440

          DON'T chase him dont' write another message wait for him to talk to you..

          You may not have liked him but sending him a message says you do.. Go for the chase love hold back,

          CW
          PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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          • Suzanne02
            Junior Member
            • Jul 2009
            • 5

            Yeah that's exactly what I'm going to do. Just leave it now.

            I just don't understand it at all... are all boys this confusing? Even the good ones? lol

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            • Joy
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2008
              • 618

              Yup....... boys, men, all of them they are def confusing..... and they say women are out there lol

              I agree with CW Let him track you down when he does be happy to hear from him then you'll get the scoop.

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              • Guest

                Originally posted by Suzanne02
                Yeah that's exactly what I'm going to do. Just leave it now.

                I just don't understand it at all... are all boys this confusing? Even the good ones? lol
                Meh...both sexes play hard to get at times. That's when things get confusing.

                However....not good to give in and make yourself seem to available. Sometime that can ruin the mystique of a blossoming relationship. Get to know eachother well before you make your self too available.

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