[Guest]

OTYA..

I get that, trust me, ... but's he's done.. finished.. I told him that no way would my Vendors go for his first offer and the extent I went to, to get them to agree to the new one, (with my $3k drop), is attitude was, when the first home grand ends next month, prices will come down, I as an investor have 100's to choice from and as an Investor, I can wait...for the right one.

He's astute. He doesn't give a rats about this place, he had 3 others, I thought I talked him into this one haha.. fool.

He showed absolutely no interest in having a look inside, even though that is what he asked me to arrange for him to do.

He's not trying to get me to go back to the Vendors with his offer... He could have done that over the phone...he knew that I had to give up $3k for this deal....

He had a drink, spoofed himself up, lol to meet me there and paid no attention to the place once there...

So if the business prospects are over, go for it.

What the h&ll do you have to lose?

[GlitterAndStuds]

I agree, give it a shot! Sure, wait a couple of days maybe, you never know if he's going to contact you. But if the business part won't be an issue, go for it. The worst thing he can say is no, in which case he's an idiot anyway

[Livelaughlove]

Now over these two weeks, we've only texted about the house, once he replied with "haha, I know you want a sale", to which I replied " It may suprise you but I also want to make sure that you want this home", to which he stated " appreciated"... One or two calls - all business .......

Anyways, 1) I couldn't believe that I said what I did and 2) this is what followed.

I couldn't get into the friggen Unit, the tenants had locked it from the inside, so I tried the front door.

He at this point, was still giving "buying signs", asking what something was in the courtyard area etc.

I laughed, (what could I do?) and said, well you can still see the kitchen through the window... He didn't look, just smiled.

Im sure the "buying signs" was not because of the house rather your deliciousness

So, anyways I then proceeded to tell him I had another interested buyer from Queensland ( different State) at $5k more, as it was I was going to have to cut my commission $3k for him to purchase it.. He said "sure", so I said, "oi, do you think I'm lying? I'm not" to which he smiled and said, well go chace that one.

This guys fresh, Watch out he may be a pick up artist.... Lmao

j/k but I like him :}

Anyways, I know this is long ....

Then get to the point!

His mobile phone rang and so I stood in the driveway, he took out reading glasses, (trendy ones) put them on and proceeded to tell the person on the phone to hold whilst he tried to retreive a number, I laughed.. I thought it was amusing ( whilst admiring him) that, he was trying to locate this number whilst still talking..

Looks like your attraction for him is growing, from his status symbols to his much simpler idiosyncrasies...

To which, he turned, looked at me and said " shut up you" and smiled...

This is like little children on the playground when the boy pushes the girl away and just causes her to like him more. THE GAME NEVER CHANGES!

Ok believe it or not, he is trying to keep your attention and focus on you while he is on the phone, (sign of interest)

He is also teasing which is clearly pointed out by the smile (His smile is a way for him to soften the "shut up" a subconcious gesture of being playful)

I'm like WT? Took me back a bit at the same time, made me think - was that a flirt?

It was meant to take up back, what it communicates is that he is not intimidated by you which is attractive. Also It was a flirt your lady intuition was right.

So, when he got off the phone he proceeded to state that he said that because I was laughing at him putting on glasses ( self-concious?) to which I said, no it just seemed funny how you went about doing that.

It wuld have been better if he didn't explain it but hey its good enough for me to give him a

So, I said, "so why am I here then if you weren't going to go to what we dicussed?

He said " haha because you wanted to see me again".

Again, that threw me.

Off course, I said "lets start walking back towards the cars", and I stated " no, because obviously you wanted to see me again". He laughed and said nothing.

He actually did this to guage your interest level. Which you passed nicely when you tested him and repeated it...

His silence was actually a confirmation of "She likes me"

Which is why he smiled!

Further small talk then regarding this other person that was interested, how he intends as an "Investor" to sit back and get a bargain, how I am smart and will just tell the Vendor he was a jerk and work it out with this other person...

So now we are at the driveway, he laughs and tells me "your double parked" , I can't recall what I answered with, a few nerves were happening... lol... and then I made one of those double meanings and said, "well sleep on it"...

Awe someone has the butterflies... haha

Btw. This was more of that playground behavior... Its flirting.

Now, I suspect he was serious as to why he turned up, to see me, and no no text messages last night.

Thing is, I want to be balsy and text and say, "right, Ms Qld is coming down to look, but I think you owe me dinner, for putting me out"...

And, do this tomorrow.

What's your thoughts ... lol.

CW

Ok the attraction on both of you have been clearly demonstrated!

You to him
Him to you

What you have to do is move the conversation from buisness/work to casual... You have to do it soon while the buying temperture is still hot

Dont wait 3 days or so...

Your text is fine, while I would suggest "a cup of something wonderful " instead of dinner...

Hope this helps

Live laugh and love

[WildChild]

I just had to chuckle reading all this. When I was younger I thought as we got older the game playing would stop, that people must become so mature that they would just be up front and so confident and such. I have friends well into their 70s who are still or once again, in the world of dating and it's the same stuff...attraction, testing and seeing if it will come together.

[Guest]

I just had to chuckle reading all this. When I was younger I thought as we got older the game playing would stop, that people must become so mature that they would just be up front and so confident and such. I have friends well into their 70s who are still or once again, in the world of dating and it's the same stuff...attraction, testing and seeing if it will come together.

Even funnier is that when I was younger - I thought adults were infallible.

Now that I'm grown, I just see that a good deal are still a bunch of immature little kids.

[WildChild]

LOL, if you see that now, just wait another 20 or 30 years!

[GlitterAndStuds]

I just had to chuckle reading all this. When I was younger I thought as we got older the game playing would stop, that people must become so mature that they would just be up front and so confident and such. I have friends well into their 70s who are still or once again, in the world of dating and it's the same stuff...attraction, testing and seeing if it will come together.

Seriously. I couldn't wait to graduate high school 'cause I figured all that stupid drama, games, etc. would be over, or at least dwindle away.

Alas.... it did not happen.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ok, you lot... You win....

I will send a text today... And, LLL, I'll change it to drink..

Yeah What does CW have to lose, nothing... I can call him a jerk again outloud if he says no haha.

[happy ending]

yes go for it - hope it works out well. when i was trying to see if my now boyfriend liked me, one night i had my friend babysit and took him over a bowl of icecream and said, they had this new flavour i thought you might like to try it. he said great, would you like to come in - is your daughter ok by herself, and i said my friend is minding her tonight. the look on his face told me ALL i needed to know. the rest was history.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh lord, what a teenager.

k..

"I'm watching the double parking now and on a side note, I think you owe me a drink for the other night!

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