[Texinator]

Whatever, just throw on a nice bikini for your date

[Amber]

Whatever, just throw on a nice bikini for your date

Under the outfit, that could be arranged. He won't be seeing it but that's ok.

[Texinator]

Aw, that's not nice. Does the Louvre cover up all its lovely paintings? No...

[Amber]

Aw, that's not nice. Does the Louvre cover up all its lovely paintings? No...

Sure they do! What do you think the Mona Lisa had until that black dress of hers? A red polka dot bikini but she wasn't going to let the guys of that era see it!!

[Amber]

I meant "under" her dress. Typo

[Amber]

I have a question for everyone.

People say to forget about the destination and just enjoy the journey. And I agree that is a good saying to go by. But in the long run I do want to get married. I'm in my mid 30's. And I tell guys that right now I'm just looking to see how things go and for eventually a serious relationship. I'm not looking for a ring right now. And that is true. But down the road, I do want that ring.

So when a guy on the first date, who was good as getting into serious stuff, says that he can't see himself married. If I remember right, he said that. Do I just go on a second date and forget about that for the moment, thinking down the road he may change his mind? Or do I get rid of him for that comment? I wonder if thinking like that is just way too premature or should I listen to exactly what he is saying?

[jns]

Maybe you go on a second or third date and see if he wants to change his mind. He may soften his position if he really likes you. See if you are truly compatible. It may be just something he says to keep from getting into too deep of a conversation, a statement to keep someone from inquiring further. A first date isn't where you usually figure out a decision that has a major effect on your life and his.