[Hopeless Dork]

WC -- that makes profound sense. I had never really thought about why many women are drawn to guys with a good sense of humor...other than they are fun to be around ... but the way you put up there -- just hits home. I think no one wants to walk on eggshells around the guy the love.. one with a sense of humour makes being yourself feel easier, safer to do.

But even that has a line, at least for me. I don't prefer the total class clown , center of attention -- look at me I'm funny kind of guy. Though they are the life of the party they are often too worried about pleasing the masses.

For me , I like a good sense of humour on a reserved, quiet guy. Something in that balance that is attractive to me.

For ky, I think your heart is probably pulling you in a direction already, sometimes there is no choice to be made- it makes itself naturally. Who do you hope it is when your phone rings? Whoever it is you hope it is calling , is probably who you are already drawn to.

[Guest]

first suggestion would be to not worry about it for now. nothing is serious and just think of it as hanging out, not so much as dates.

if that won't work for you, i agree with a previous poster. if the phone were to ring right now, which one would you hope it would be?

[Guest]

Who's winning?

Adam Sandler or Alex Trebek?

[kygirl]

Who's winning?

Adam Sandler or Alex Trebek?

Adam was in the lead, then they were pretty close to tied...with the fourth round of dates, I am thinking Alex is starting to move past Adam at a high rate of speed.

The smart guy has started to show me his funny/witty side a bit more as he's gotten more comfortable with me, and the funny guy is, well, almost annoying funny. Sometimes you just need some downtime.