[Mes T]

Eh yes?

[Guest]

Translation attempt...

Why the heck are you putting up with this? Your good looking, nice, and intelligent.

He is balding, possesive...

I can presume he is either:

well built(not of much value, I am too)

attractive face(understandable)

Mes_T,

you are an attractive, intelligent, and good hearted person.

being the amazing young woman you are, I dont understand why why you would still want to be with him. you should be treated much better than he seems to be treating you, and you deserve to be loved and respected by someone who truly cares about you and can show it they way you should be shown.

[GentlemanGhost]

Mes_T,

you are an attractive, intelligent, and good hearted person.

being the amazing young woman you are, I dont understand why why you would still want to be with him. you should be treated much better than he seems to be treating you, and you deserve to be loved and respected by someone who truly cares about you and can show it they way you should be shown.

That is exactly what I was trying to say.....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Mes...

It sounds like he has no idea how to "love", but blaming someone constantly, making them walk on egg shells, and only after 16 weeks together? Sounds like he also has a problem with "women"... Who hurt him? How did his Mother treat him growing up? These questions come to mind because I've been where you are in that respect... and I know my answers....

Buying gifts, to him, anyway is "yes I love you" and yes in his own way he probably does, but he has issues and you don't need to continue down this road, it's only been 16 weeks, don't make it 7 years like I did.

Sourpuss, it's good that he's affectionate, pats you on the bum, gives you stolen kisses. I think in your instance, he wants to feel "loved" for him, not his doo dah being the reason why your there, as you were single for some time, he may need re-assurance, constant, admiration, just for him, because of him, nothing in return to get him to change perhaps..

CW