[Green]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 7 months, recently i've been feeling abit down about the way I look. Whenever were together at his house or mine it is easy for him to get horny, but lately whenever our clothes are off it seems harder to make him horny. When both our clothes are on it, I dont even have to touch him to get hard, but in bed naked I have to touch him or let him touch me to get hard. Im so confused I'm a fit young female, small cute butt, average sized breasts. I dont get why he is more turned on when I have clothes off! I dont get whats wrong with me If anyone has any comments or has any idea why this is happening please let me know!

[hello_pitty]

Because there is more left for the imagination. I suggest buying some cute lingerie or just wear a bikini. Trust me, there is nothing wrong with you, that's just the way most men think. If you asked a bunch of men what they would rather see....a girl in a bikini or lingerie, or naked in front of them...I bet they would say, bikini or lingerie.

The only way to know for sure is to ask him. Say "do you like it better when I have clothes on, like say a bikini or lingerie?" Maybe even do a little strip tease for him! Ask him what he would like to see you in!

Good luck!

[Hopeless Dork]

It might have more to do with nerves than arousal. If he gets turned on just being around you, you obviously excite him. When the clothes come off there is more pressure -- he might just be a little anxious. Maybe if you jump to the sex while you still have your clothes on it might take away some of the stress that comes as you take the time to undress... example when things are hot and heated, pull him out -- push your panties to the side and get to business See if that works....

Don't react like you are stressed when he looses his ... hornyness, just enjoy the extra playtime that you get in bringing that spark back.

I seriously doubt it has anything to do with him being less attracted to you naked.

[rcoreyus]

Some people are uncomfortable with nakedness - probably as a result of their upbringing. I wouldn't worry over-much about it. the lingerie idea sounds good.

[Guest]

I heard a saying a long time ago that i didnt really understand when i heard it:

there's nothing more attractive than a scantily clothed woman...

I guess that means it's about the "chase"