[stressed]

I would say you shouldn't overthink it, as it may give you more stress about the situation. Just stay relaxed and take things as they come. Certainly put your best foot foward if you'd like to do so, but just be you regardless. You'll be able to tell how he regards it by his body language shortly into it.

My thoughts exactly. If you try to be anyone other than yourself you might get stressed and say/do the wrong things. He likes you for who you are so you don't have to force anything at all. Have a good time!

[amyjo]

well our evening plans got canceled because his sister has a basketball tournament and he has to help at it. he did want to go tho, but can't now. so its alright...

[newhere808]

Aww bummer, but if he pushes for a reschedule quickly then you may have your answer

[FeministBen]

Wink and point like the fonz. Nothing says cool, controlled sexual desire like the Fonz.

[SinisterUrge]

I don't know about controlled. He did often leave the diner with two girls at a time (How all three fit on his 500 Triumph is another matter).

Plus the 'Fonz' had no parents (at least none anyone ever saw). What highschool kid couldn't get laid without mom & dad keeping them in line.

[sourpuss]

Shoot amyjo! I was dying to know how it went. Are you going to reschedule?

[Amalthea]

I think one of the best things to do is be in a really good mood before the date!!! That way you're laughing, and happy, and funny during the date.

Things that really seem to improve my mood: if my feet hurt I always seem to be in a better mood after I soak them in a little hot water in the bottom of the bathtub with epsom salts

-*getting a massage*

-listening to pleasant music while I do my hair and makeup. Listening to pleasant music in general but this is a convenient time.

-lauging at cute videos on this internet such as this one. (edit)


Good luck!

[amyjo]

well i talked to his sister about it. to see if we wanted to do it another day but she didnt respond at that part of the message. and she said she didnt think he liked me the way i may have liked him. and i havent talked to him in a week. we see eachother in the halls but theres never time to hang out. we hardly ever see eachother...almost never. its frusturating. and he doesnt kno me super well. like my personality. so i wouldnt blaim him for not liking me yet. but i thought once he got to kno me and who i am, then he may like me. but i never get to see him. so maybe this one just isnt in the cards for me....?

[stressed]

This is a tough one. I'm worried that he might have panicked the last minute and now uses his sister to avoid it (not necessarily because he doesn't like you, he might have got scared or started to overthink).

[sourpuss]

Amy, can you find way to bump into him?