[Tabz]

You have the most chances of finding a good man for you in places where you spend the most of your free time, or by doing activities you enjoy the most, or where you can share your hobbies.

e.g.
You spend a lot of time on the internet: You'll meet him online
You like sports: You'll meet him at the gym
You love cooking: At a cooking class
You like chess: At a chess club
You're a student: At school/uni

Aside from those, it is also about luck: it can be a neighbour, a friend's friend, somebody who gave you directions, the postman, the one sitting next to you at the cinema, it can basically be anyone. And they are usually found when you least expect them, instead of when you intentionally look for them.

Greeaat advice!!

[Explorer44]

Yes, you may meet him where you're interests lie, but stay open to the unexpected...

Try something new-cooking class, wine tasting, whatever

[kerry-]

Thanks everyone all great advice

Just a note that I did end up kissing a guy at my work yesterday as I bumped into him in a bar (been perving on him for a while now haha) probs won't turn into anything but still getting out there right? haha