[livelovecheer070]

So, for about a year me and this guy Aidan have been flirting all the time, but not really in front of other people. Aidan is the type of guy who flirts with every girl he thinks is hott, which is sooo annoying but hes is so sexy and i want him so bad. Recently, he got a girlfriend, but they broke up and we started getting closer again. He talks to me all the time and he is always telling me about how much he wants to kiss and hookup with me but yesterday he told me that he still really likes his ex girlfriend, Caroline. Even when Caroline and him were going out he would still be all over me and tell me how much he likes me. It is so confusing because he is SUCH a big flirt and i can bet he says this to every girl, but for some reason i like to be stupid, a believe him.

Caroline is the biggest and is always flirting with other guys and its ridiculous, but i guess there perfect for each other right? NO. i want him. We have kissed before and it was amazing but for some reason he is always turning back to caroline, what is up with that? I seriously don't understand why he can't just pick one girl and stay with her because even when caroline and Aidan are dating, hes still all over other girls. Today he told me that we can't flirt anymore and believe me we flirt soooo much, we cant keep our hands off each other. But, for some reason he wants to break it off for Caroline.

Pleaseeee tell me what i can do so Aidan can come to me and only me! I want to be the only person he likes!

[ocularone]

Well unfortunately it sounds like the only answer to that, in my opinion, is hang around a few years and let this Aiden mature from a completely typical teenage horndog... That probably isn't the answer you wanted but it's pretty obvious you both are extrmely young and this is just a huge case of raging hormones all over the place. He's "hot", therefore you want him. He is apparently a smooth talker, you want him MORE...he belongs to another girl... You reallllllly want him now. And he obviously is just looking for female attention, lots of it... I could sit here and tell you he is bad news and it will only end in heartbreak and jealousy for you, but I'm pretty sure it's not really gonna matter to you that much. Just remember- your asking him to be a MAN, when it's apparent he isn't yet. It's like asking for a high fat/high sugar diet to help you loose weight---ain't gonna happen

[5thelement]

I am seeing alot of teens on here loking for advice! I am just wondering why they are not talking to the parents for advice! I know they do not want to talk to their parents or feel uncomfortable doing it, but they should! Also, teenage girls worry too much about guys too early in their life when they need to be concentrating on school and college!! Yes teen boys are horndogs and I even know some 60 yo too that are still that way! Men think about sex more often then women! Thats how their brains are wired! I's normal! You girls just need to keep that in mind! Once they get what they want, they are on to the next woman to conquer! It's a game, some grow out of it and grow up and some never grow up! Just my 2 cents spend it how you like!

[Hopeless Dork]

Just remember- your asking him to be a MAN, when it's apparent he isn't yet. It's like asking for a high fat/high sugar diet to help you loose weight---ain't gonna happen

LOL - Love it. And no more true words can be said than that. I'm sure there are boys your age that can be good boyfriends and not break your heart but this aidan... doesn't sound like one of them.

All the girlies like him, he knows it , and he wants all the cake. One day he may get bored of just flirting with dozens of girls and want all of the attention of a special young lady like yourself... but it doesn't sound like he's ready for something like that.

Maybe keep your eyes open to other guys that you might even end up liking more than aidan if you gave them a shot. Right now should be about having fun with your friends and a guy in your life should only compliment your life as it is... not be a cause for stress or hurt feelings -- too much other stuff to worry about than that.

[Hopeless Dork]

I am seeing alot of teens on here loking for advice! I am just wondering why they are not talking to the parents for advice! I know they do not want to talk to their parents or feel uncomfortable doing it, but they should!

Some parents do not create a climate where talking is even an option. Many are absent parents or working so many hours or busy with their own social lives so much that they don't have the slightest interest in hearing who has a crush on who and any talk will fall on uninterested ears.

There are also parents that have little understanding for the life of a teenager, even though they were once one, they can't seem to put themselves in the shoes of their own to remember what it was like then... how emotional and important those years are.

But if its an option, talking to your parents about whats going on in your life is really important. They may seem out of touch, but most aren't and most would love to hear whats going on in your life.