[Yvee]

I think its completely normal and natural. I wouldn't worry about anything. Although to be honest I can't really defend my opinion in any way.

[WildChild]

I can relate. The critical question is, does it interfer with his sexual interest or performance with you?

[stressed]

How often do you guys see each other? If it's not often, then MAYBE he does it when he can't be with you for a quick release and doesn't get why he's too tuckered out later.

If you see him all the time or live with him... then I agree with the others, it should be addressed. You shouldn't get turned down when you're ready and willing, that would bother me too.

I agree with this GAS.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Men like to masterbate to get rid of stress.

Men like to masterbate because they can cum quicker, as we can, with a result without having to perform.

What your question needs to be, is as others have stated, does it interfere? In your sex life together? If not? Don't worry about it.

CW

[Hotchik]

Hey Guys thanks for the great advise - no it does not interfer with our sex life and to
be honest we have a great intimate relationship and perhaps its just as CW has said to get rid of stress... e.t.c

No offense Grrr - in hes defense he is not the selfish type, but I understand where you are coming from Maybe I just work the poor guy to hard

[goose]

I would rather be with my wife than masturbate. Nothing better than being intimate with your wife or girlfriend. Some just don't want to take the time to be intimate. It takes to long.

[Vixen]

I was concerned about my bf at the time masturbating a lot. We were active so I was worried he didnt like sex with me or it wasnt enough etc.

I talked to him about it. Communication is the key.

He told me that before we met he hadnt been with anyone in a while and actually hadnt masturbated in a while but once we started having sex it was on his mind more. I basically turned him on too much so he started masturbating when he couldnt be with me. The more active you are the more you think about it.

[mamdouhsh1973]

this problem need some answers
do masturbate too ?
did u help him when he is masturbating ?
do satisfy u r self in bed regrinding him ?
do have fantasy mind?

[suzzet]

No matter who you are with. He wont tell you about it. But even a newlywed man will still masturbate. Don't read anymore than just that into it. These are times when he truly wants the Ideal quickie. No foreplay just self gratification plain and simple. You could be a centerfold and he would still do this. Let me guess this is at least 3-4 days a week. What can I say all men are pigs. I'm more than that. I'm also a cross dresser. If you have any questions feel free to ask anything you'd like. You wont hurt my feelings no matter what you'd like to know.

[xxdanniixx]

maybe he just has a very high sex drive in which he loves to have sex with you.... like you said but also masterbates aswell alot of men do its very normal....... but if you think this is a issue than have a word tell him how it makes you feel coz untill you do it will just carry on!! xxdanniixx