My girl doesn't want to kiss me, saying its invading her personal space. What should I do?
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Need a little more information.
Does she ever let you kiss her? -
my advice would be to find someone who welcomes your kisses and let the girl be alone to have all the personal space she could ever want. Kissing isn't an "invasion" of any kind...
..unless you're trying to kiss her at awkward or inappropriate times (ie when she's on the t.oilet, at her grandmother's funeral, etc..) - then you should just back off and wait til the time is right.Comment
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I agree.Maybe she feels uncomfortable if u kiss her a lot in puplic.Otherwise,if she's also cold and distant in general leave her alone in her personal space...Comment
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Look at yourself also, to see if there is something that would have her hold back, such as dental appliances or oral hygiene issues. Are you and her intimate in other ways? Is she from a culture that frowns on kissing?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Maybe you are a bad kisser?
More information is needed here.... how serious is the relationship? How long have you been together? Has she always not liked kissing? Are there any cultural issues?Comment
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We've been for four months now. She had an ex boyfriend but no physical intimacy so I guess you can say that I am her first guy to do these things. She is very conservative and every time I do it to her she always back off even if we do it in a private place.Comment
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Maybe she's not ready for kissing. How old is she?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia [CENTER][URL="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/register.php"]Register![/URL] | [URL="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/help#vb_faq/site_rules"]Rules/FAQ[/URL][/CENTER]Comment
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How old are you both? It might have something to do with her age...
If she can't be intimate with you even in this small way, you might just want to move on.Comment
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Maybe she's not over her ex yet...If it's the case,it's not fair for you.Comment
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