[Nicki215]

He's exactly the same way. I think that's why we're compatible. We're very similar, but very different at the same time. He is a computer science major. I'm a biology major. We both try our absolute hardest with one another. I'm more worried about what other, non-related people think though. He doesn't really care as long as we're both happy.

[Nicki215]

Are you considering getting married now or when you graduate from college? J

Between now and graduation. I will have summers off based on my schedule which might be helpful. He graduates in 2013. I'm going a year later to get a teaching degree along with biology so that puts me at 2014. I definitely need to plan a lot (we both have huge families) so we'd need to make the decision within the next year or so for it to all pan out.

[rcoreyus]

I'm a big fan of living together before marriage. Too many couples who thought they were perfect for each other discover that they are not once they move in together.

If you do want to get married first, then think carefully. Are there things about him that you are hoping will change? If so wait until they actually do change - because they might not. Too many people marry someone because of what they want them to be, not what they are.