[AlexisNicole<3]

Okay, me && my bestfriend have known each other since like the beginning of January. But, me and my Boyfriend have known each other since August. I am only 14, btw. He is 16.
The thing is me && him have broken up many times. I have pretty much chosen him over all of my bestfriends! But, the only real bestfriend I have left hates my boyfriend, because of the way he treats me. She isn't the Jealous type, its just she hates the way he is. Well, the things he does is Grabs my wrists, && Kinda yells in my face. I love him though, I do. && I love her. I feel like Either way, I'm hurting someone. He just always manipulates me into making me feel bad though. He says he wants another chance, && That he will change or do anything just to be with me. He says I'm the only person he wants too be with. LIES! There isn't 1 guy, I know who doesn't look at another girl && think of being with her. Its also hard to believe anything he says because, he told me the other day, That his whole plan was too Play me, But then he fell in love with me, && realized how much he wanted to be with me! I just don't know what too do, I am losing everyone. But, I don't know if this one guy, is worth losing everyone over.

[sourpuss]

Doesn't sound like he's even worth losing sleep over. Lies, no trust, yells at you manipulates you, your friends hate him....what's so great about him that you'll give up real friends for, or even give time for?

[Mes T]

Take this as a learning experience and drop him.

[pinkFlames]

It sounds like you've ended up with my ex. Run as far away from him as you can before he destroys you.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Alex...

I've been where you are... at 16... He was 16 as well.

It's called, control, fear of losing, will do anything to ensure your his, it's called CONTROL.

In one way, you fall deeper and deeper in love with that type of person as they profess their love, state that they are a player, and they are, but they WANT YOU.. And, so you lose your friends for them you accept the holding of the wrists and verbal abuse, because you love that they WANT YOU and obviously as they have stated, hadn't WANTED before.

It's not real. It's CONTROL. It's that your 14 and he wants to ensure you go no-where.. YOUR HIS.. Yet your friends can see the writing on the wall.

He WILL, guarantee you, play.. and one day you'll be writing, "he cheated on me, but I love him" and so the story goes.

At 14 it's hard to see anything other than "romance/love/prince/princess" and words such as he has spoken will confuse you...

At 14 it's hard to be an Adult and see, wait a sec? I don't deserve this? I don't need to be treated like this? There are guys out there that will love me, and I will still profess my love, but treat me as a princess... I'm mistaken for this, as he's professing love. But, really, he's just trying to keep me, whilst he WILL play again...

Respect.

Do you respect your parents? Your teather? Your girlfriend? Then don't you get that you need to be respected as well?

Follow your real gut feeling and forget love, that will be thought with every single boy you ever date and end in a relationship with.... Because that is what young ladies and older ladies want, love.

But us older ones, won't settle and take carp..

So nor should you.

CW