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  • Drew
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2010
    • 6

    Originally posted by Jex
    Have you thought about the age?
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    This has always made a rift in our relationship but what can ya do?

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    • Ashlee T.
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 6412

      (part of that might be that I explained I have a few physical needs, because I don't masturbate or watch porn or anything like that... I need a tiny bit of a physical release, and if that doesn't happen with her in mild exposures, I'll end up stressed all the time, and having wet dreams, etc.)
      I misunderstood based on the above quote that you were asking her to give you that release since you could not give it to yourself. By that, I gathered that you meant more than simply kissing because it sounded like the kissing was leading to heavy making out and that became the problem. I'm not questioning your religious beliefs, but you can understand where if I thought you meant you were expecting her to give you some release, but religiously couldn't do it on your own, where that might sound a bit hypocritical. I didn't realize you were talking about simply kissing as being that "release" to keep you from having wet dreams and such.

      Glad to hear you all are working things out. You both sound like very mature people for your age and I'm sure you can come to a common ground.
      "Be what you're looking for."

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