[abc123!!]

Ive excepted the fact and already doing my best to move on. Its just when I talk to her she doesnt seem 100% sure of herself. She loves me so why give up on that which is why I am confused. I just dont understand how a girl can be all about someone then a few months later get cold feet and all of a sudden wants to find herself.

[kygirl]

I think sometimes you get so wrapped up in another person that you don't even realize that you've lost a bit of yourself. I dated several guys that I tried to be like. I starting like their things and going where they wanted to go and before you realize it, it's like you forget who you are. It's not your fault. It happens when you feel like maybe you have to be a certain way and maybe she has just been wrapped up for so long that she's not sure.

I definitely thing the moving thing is a lot of pressure too. I mean, it's hard to commit to having to move around and it's best for both you and her for her to figure out if she can handle that. Like everyone else said, you have a lot of time left. It seems like maybe she just didn't want to hurt you.

But I feel the pain on the being all about you and then leaving. I've had guys do that before and it's quite a shock when one day they want to see you and want to be with you and then BAM, it's over. But take what you have learned and focus on this new experience you will have when you move. Maybe your forever love is around the corner...