[Hmmm<3]

So I’ll try to keep this brief...

I have been seeing this guy for a couple months we aren’t exclusive but I we both seem to be on the same page that we would like to be eventually we just want to take things slow. I do like him a lot but we are definitely not even close to the ball park of love.

Anyways, last night we went to a movie. Things were great, normal, cute whatever. At one point I was rubbing his palm with my finger and asked if the hard spots were calluses, he said yes due to the hard nature of his job, I laughed and made a joke about his job not being difficult, then the moment was over and we went back to watching the movie. I was still rubbing the calluses on his hand and then all of a sudden I had this over whelming feeling he was the one. Now I don't want you to get the wrong impression, im not in love with him and didn't feel that way last night. It was like I got this butterfly feeling and I just knew he was who I would spend the rest of my life with. It sounds so crazy because I repeat I am NOT in love with him, nor do I think that’s what it meant last night it just felt so right.

Am I crazy? Afterwards we had the best date so far I was just so comfortable with him and although I was before this was different. Ladies do you know that point when you cuddle with a guy and you stop worrying if you’re hurting their arm or chest and you just know that if you were he would tell you? That’s what it was, maybe that makes no sense either, lmao. I’m gonna stop here before I ramble lol.

Just curious if anyone else has ever experienced something like this?

TIA

[Ashlee T.]

Yes...I felt that way once.

It's an amazing feeling. Enjoy it. But don't overdo it and move too fast. Whats meant to be will happen. Patience is the key.

[stressed]

You have a crush on him, it's a beautiful feeling. Keep the same pace and enjoy it

[jns]

The head knows what it knows, but the heart wants what the heart wants wants.

[LadyC]

I had that same feeling. We have been married for four years. I agree totally with BD. Take it slow and enjoy all of the precious moments.

[Hmmm<3]

Thanks I think your all right.

I really do want to take things slow with this one, my life is so different from the last time that I dated and i've been known to fall too fast. I love that this time its different

[wednesdaymorning]

I've had that feelig plenty of times before. I think it's that fluttery "Oh my god, I can see a future coming out of this...maybe" feeling. It's the beginning of the amourous obsession stage of love which everyone makes romantic comedies about. It's a very good feeling though, don't ever take it for granted (not that you are. ).