[LuvsPhishes]

Hello all, i hope you dont mind a man invading your forum, but i was hoping i could get some advice.

There is a girl i have a bit of a crush on. She runs in my group of friends and actually has been FWB with a friend of mine (that is over now she said).

So last weekend i was at the bar with some buddies and she comes in with a friend, gives me a big hug a kiss on the cheek and says she wanted to say hi.

after sayign hi, we go to hanging with our friends. i then leave the bar and run into her in line at the next bar. we chat a little, her and her girlfriend get in to the bar while us guys wait outside and eventually leave.

the next morning i have a facebook message say that "our meeting was far to brief last night!"

now that sounds pretty good to me so i write back that i agree and ask if she had fun at the bar. SHe says yes it was cool, how'd my night go?

So i joke that of course the cute girls get in while the guys get shut out, tell her we should get together and that i dont have her number.

she then messages back with jsut her number, no words no message, jsut her number.

Now in your expert opinion, did she feel obligated to give me her number, or might there actually be something there?

I apologize in advance for the long post, and sounding like a high schooler im sure.

THanks

[GetTheDudeDotCom]

Hello all, i hope you dont mind a man invading your forum, but i was hoping i could get some advice.

There is a girl i have a bit of a crush on. She runs in my group of friends and actually has been FWB with a friend of mine (that is over now she said).

So last weekend i was at the bar with some buddies and she comes in with a friend, gives me a big hug a kiss on the cheek and says she wanted to say hi.

after sayign hi, we go to hanging with our friends. i then leave the bar and run into her in line at the next bar. we chat a little, her and her girlfriend get in to the bar while us guys wait outside and eventually leave.

the next morning i have a facebook message say that "our meeting was far to brief last night!"

now that sounds pretty good to me so i write back that i agree and ask if she had fun at the bar. SHe says yes it was cool, how'd my night go?

So i joke that of course the cute girls get in while the guys get shut out, tell her we should get together and that i dont have her number.

she then messages back with jsut her number, no words no message, jsut her number.

Now in your expert opinion, did she feel obligated to give me her number, or might there actually be something there?

I apologize in advance for the long post, and sounding like a high schooler im sure.

THanks

Dude, I'm not a woman, but what are you waiting for? Always assume the woman is attracted to you. And it sounds like she is. Never ever doubt it without a reason. Call her back and flirt and tease like you already have. And don't ask for the date. Make a plan for yourself alone or with friends and say, "You should come with me. It will be fun!" And when you are with her, be the man. Lead her by gently putting your hand on the small of her back instead of talking when it feels right. Kiss her when you feel you want to. Hold out your hand and see if she holds hands with you. All that stuff.

[LuvsPhishes]

thanks my friend, i always over think thsi stuff and end up shooting myself in the foot

[GetTheDudeDotCom]

thanks my friend, i always over think thsi stuff and end up shooting myself in the foot

You're welcome. You gotta remember: Even if it doesn't work out with this woman, you will survive, recover, and find another woman. ALWAYS. You will always get better at it even if you make mistakes. Just keep going. And if you need help figuring all this out, you can always ask people. Or experts, like me. Heh.

[tramig]

Go for it

[Ashlee T.]

I think you've gotten some great advice.

For her, as a woman, it's a little nerve wrecking sometimes to get out the number, because you don't know, "is this going to be one of those guys that calls me ALL the time and blows up my text msgs constantly?". BUT, I think there's no doubt she's at least a bit intrigued by you, otherwise she wouldn't have initiated the FB message the next day, right? So, don't put all your hopes, faiths and dreams into it......(not saying you would, but you'd be amazed how many people do when they're interested in someone), but stand up proudly and go for it. Most of all, feel good about yourself. And know that whether or not it works or doesn't, you're still you, and you're still awesome.

Go get her!

[Jayla2251]

A lot of people use facebook from their phone, so it could just simply be her doing a quick "text" back to you.

I dont think any girl feels they have to give their phone number when a guy asks! Plus she's the one who messaged you first.

[hizenberg]

go for it she wants you. if i had messaged a guy it would be because i wanted him, her messaging you first is a sign she wants you.trust me,message her, chat her up and give some attention just not too much and she will be eating out of the palm of your hand lol i.m.o. i could be wrong though?

[lonestar]

She wants you to have her number... we don't just give our numbers out to anyone. At least the classy girls don't...

[Pau]

Looks like she's interested in you too.