[Fatin]

ok well its a long story but i will try to make it short .. see theres this guy who i met and we started texting since then i mean he is really nice and funny i mean i don't talk to strangers a lot but he was something .. so he one time called and talked like an hour or something and we talked about everything i really enjoyed that .. then after phone call he just stopped i mean he stopped texting he stopped calling .. and i just want to know what happened please any help

[jns]

Maybe he has a girlfriend who found out and got him to stop. Guys are sometimes like that if they decide they don't want to continue communicating, just stopping it with no explanation. Do you still have a bf? If so, might he get jealous?

[Hopeless Dork]

The thing about relationships/friendships/getting to know someone online or over the phone is they are very easy to dismiss for a lot of people... he doesn't have to see you or talk to you or face the consequences for vanishing - he can just poof. Perhaps he , like JNS said... had a girlfriend and liked flirting but realized he was taking it to far and cut you off. Or perhaps he met someone else and all his attention was thrown their way... perhaps something important happened to him and he's been caught up in dealing with that and since you guys hadn't known each other long he didn't feel he need to explain why he'd be too pre-occupied to talk anymore.

It could really be any number of things. Since you haven't known him long you should at least be happy he flaked out so soon and not after you spent a LOT of time investing feelings into him.

[Fatin]

yeah its true but as far as i know he does not have a girlfriend and yes he knows that i have a boyfriend and when i told him he seemed very glad to hear it or something like .. well its true that it could number of things but that wasn't really a nice thing to do .. i mean if he didn't like he should say it to me .. and i believe that we were gonna be just friends and nothing more