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[KMonte85]

Can he ask the girls whose interest in him disappeared after speaking with those two women? Perhaps if he still is on speaking terms with them, on of those girls could tell him what they are being told.... he could casually ask why their interest waned, and ask if the girls told them something that turned them off, explaining their crush, jealousy, and his incling that their maliciously spreading lies to keep him single. Even if he doesn't get the girl to like him again, he might get some valuable information.

I think he may also want tell these two women that are on him all the time to back off and make that happen. If they're around him all the time and he doesn't want them to be, it is not that hard to make it so they can't be around him constantly other than if they have class together... perhaps telling them that he's on to their ridiculous antics will deter them from doing it anymore! what they're doing seems fishy, and he could get a bad reputation quite quickly at his uni if what they're saying is nasty enough...

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[rcoreyus]

Sounds like they want him and are telling other women things to keep them away - nasty if true. Any chance he could talk to one of the girls they have talked to and see what they said? Or maybe he has a friend who could talk to one of the girls that has been discouraged? Its a bit confusing - both girls want him and they are collaborating? What do they want? Do they both want a date with him at the same time? (OK - ignoring that this is a common male fantasy, I can see how it would be really strange).

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[KMonte85]

I hope he figures out soon what is going on! Poor guy - as if college and dating weren't complicated enough as is!

[Ashlee T.]

He's in his mid 30's, how old are these girls?

If he's this sure they're causing him problems behind his back, it's time to tell them to buzz off. Or start keeping his love interests totally private from them so they are unaware of who he has asked out, etc. It's none of their business anyway. And if they're truly doing this, why does he want them as friends anyway?

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[Ashlee T.]

Weird. I agree it's not typical behaviour of women that age. And typically, women are territorial enough (or at least the ones I know hehe) that they wouldn't be willing to share their love interest with another female, as is the case here. Very strange.

Sounds like he needs to be more private about who he asks out, etc. How do they know who he's interested in anyway?

Unless he's just a creeper and girls are blowing him off. Lol.

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