For the last 5 months i've been wanting to break up with my bf.The reason is because i found out some gay sites on his pc history.He told me he has gay tendencies but that it wasn't a big deal at all because he'd always want to date girls and be with me.I believed him but the thing is that i can't quite deal with this.During 5 months i've been tortured by the thought of it,i've had bad dreams about it and sometimes he gave me the impression of checkin' out men. So,the thing is that i can see he's crazy about me but his feminine manners and the whole story won't let me relax!I told him that i couldn't stand it being confused and messed-up all the time and that i had to leave him and he asked me to go and see him in a few days,have a great time with him(go to the movies,etc) and then brake-up piecefully. As weird as it may sound i said yes. There are also other reasons why i want to end it.He is very lazy, he wakes up at 3-4:00 in the afternoon, he doesn't follow courses in his university and he's sometimes telling me lies that he actually does.And when i talk to him about that he gets mad.Anyway...The thing is, i broke up with him once in the past and i was wrong,back then.I don't want to hurt him again or be hurt.Am I making the right decision?I love him so much,i don't know what to do.
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Should i break up??
Hi everyone!
For the last 5 months i've been wanting to break up with my bf.The reason is because i found out some gay sites on his pc history.He told me he has gay tendencies but that it wasn't a big deal at all because he'd always want to date girls and be with me.I believed him but the thing is that i can't quite deal with this.During 5 months i've been tortured by the thought of it,i've had bad dreams about it and sometimes he gave me the impression of checkin' out men. So,the thing is that i can see he's crazy about me but his feminine manners and the whole story won't let me relax!I told him that i couldn't stand it being confused and messed-up all the time and that i had to leave him and he asked me to go and see him in a few days,have a great time with him(go to the movies,etc) and then brake-up piecefully. As weird as it may sound i said yes. There are also other reasons why i want to end it.He is very lazy, he wakes up at 3-4:00 in the afternoon, he doesn't follow courses in his university and he's sometimes telling me lies that he actually does.And when i talk to him about that he gets mad.Anyway...The thing is, i broke up with him once in the past and i was wrong,back then.I don't want to hurt him again or be hurt.Am I making the right decision?I love him so much,i don't know what to do.
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