[CHANDLERS WISH]

Okay, CW, now it's your turn!

Already ?

you can put alphas, betas and omegas.

Definately remember being taught that, that's a great new thread jns....

Mmmm....

Well to be honest? I see it as lost souls and found souls...

A lost soul, will not learn by their mistakes.. They will not accept that they have made many if any... They will carry baggage and blame the ex, for what occured to the failure of their relationship...They haven't grown...

A found soul, will sit back and look, learn by their mistakes, realise what they did, all a bit too late, will not carry baggage and will understand what is necessary to make things work. They have grown....

I know that sounds simple?

But, simplicity sometimes explains things the best.

[tesoro]

Thanks guys...I guess patience is not one of my virtues, CW. haha
There are indeed many different ways one can look at this but I think keeping things simplified always works the best for me too!

I think alpha, beta, omega is an interesting idea.

For me it has to do with a man's personal growth as in maturity vs immaturity or as you put it, CW, lost soul or found soul.

[WildChild]

Ah CW, your insight hits the nail on the head I think.

[baja]

You all are getting way too analytical... from a guy's perspective, Clint Eastwood pretty much summed it up in The Good, The Bad and The Ugly by saying "there's two kinds of people [men]... those with loaded guns... and those who dig."

It pretty much works from both the literal and metaphorical perspectives