[btifulfrefly08]

What would you do if you found naked photos of your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends? Not just on his phone but also on his computer. They're not recent, but they're from when they were together. Would you get agree?

One day I was trying to find a picture that my bf had took of us with his phone on his phone and I saw pix of him and his ex doing sexual activities. It broke my heart. But I simply asked him to delete them that there's no reason to hold onto them. He did not do it. Just the other day I was browsing through my internet history to find a website I was on and I saw that he was looking at naked pix of his ex that morning. I stormed out of the house and asked him why the heck he was staring at them. He denied looking at them... I can't say that I fully believe on it, but I asked him to delete them off the computer and never look at them again. I'm wondering if I should really be this upset that he still has the pictures.

[hppacific]

uh yea i would say so only for the simple fact that hes still looking at them and refuses to delete them. if he had them n just forgot n u stumbled upon them i dont think it would matter but since hes gettin weird n not deleting them and hes still looking at them i would be really upset and personally i would just delete them and not say a word about it and see what happens. but thats just me.

[Cheese5318]

I had one girlfriend before I met my lovely wife. When this girl and I stopped dating, we cut it off completely. No letters, notes, photos...nothing left around. You move on and give your heart to your new spouse/significant other.

[swimgirl18]

Oh wow that must have been so hard for you to see those pictures. I know exactly how you feel! I once had an ex-boyfriend who kept his ex-girlfriends thong!!! It was so creepy and disgusting (becuase they were dirty...if you know what I mean). I think some (big emphasis on SOME, not all) guys have a thing about cataloguing and keeping track of their ex-girlfriends. I think they like to treat the pictures, clothing and any other paraphanalia of their exes as possessions or memories to creepily hold onto. I say that if your man can't get rid of all that , than it's time to get rid of him. Clearly he isn't mature or sympathetic enough to understand where you're coming from. Hope this helped!

[btifulfrefly08]

See he used to be a photographer... so he actually needs some of these photos for his portfolio...

[JuliaBarill]

your relationship isent going anywhere ...get out while you can.....you dont need him....keep your head up girl <3

[Celeste]

Thank You.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

He's your boyfriend, he's a photographer, it's art, beauty and in his soul...

If he was your husband, then what's required for business, remains there....rest, goes.

Let's face it, what if you two don't make it to that level? Is it fair for people to keep errasing their past? When you may yourself be part of that one day yourself? The past?

Viewing them however, for personal, whilst in a relationship is wrong....I'd question my relationship...

CW

[Guest]

If he told you he needs "sexual photographs of his ex-girlfriend(s) for his work, then he's a toad. Or he needs to find another career. I have many friends that work in advertising, photography, art, etc. and not one has any explicit photos of ex lovers in ther portfolios.

You asked him to delete them. He didn't. Could it be any more clear?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

What does he do for a living now, if I can ask....

"Used to be", and sexual photos.. most photographers can freelance, so there is no "used to be"....