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  • collegegirl2010
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2010
    • 313

    Should I let him know how I feel?Or just let it go?

    My friend guy and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. Months ago I told him I like him, but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but he let me know that it did cross his mind. And if he doesn't like me, I know for sure he use to. He was constantly giving me his number asking me to call, knowing I wouldn't. But the last time he gave me his number, I gave him mine too...He hardly ever called me. Most of the time he only calls/texts if I do first. There were only a few time when he'd text first to check on me. Sometimes I feel like I'm getting on his nerves. Should I continue to try and work things out, and let him know how I feel? Or should I just let it go?
    [FONT="Georgia"][SIZE="5"][COLOR="plum"]Love is my message.
    ~Michael Jackson~[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]
  • orchiddreams
    Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 81

    I would let it go, if he's into you he knows where to find you.

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    • collegegirl2010
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2010
      • 313

      Originally posted by orchiddreams
      I would let it go, if he's into you he knows where to find you.
      ok...And thanks.
      [FONT="Georgia"][SIZE="5"][COLOR="plum"]Love is my message.
      ~Michael Jackson~[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

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      • Cookie0115
        Junior Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 3

        I am actually going through the same thing. Have been friends with a guy for a few years and he was recently driving pretty far a few times a week to hang out...then all of a sudden in the middle of december he was too busy to ever do anything (i know the holidays are busy) but I felt like I was annoying him because I kept asking him to do stuff. We were supposed to do something new years eve but he said he was sick and I stopped texting him after that and haven't heard anything from him since then. I figured if he wants to he knows how to get a hold of me, I pretty much did everything I could. Just disappointed about the whole thing.

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        • collegegirl2010
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2010
          • 313

          Originally posted by Cookie0115
          I am actually going through the same thing. Have been friends with a guy for a few years and he was recently driving pretty far a few times a week to hang out...then all of a sudden in the middle of december he was too busy to ever do anything (i know the holidays are busy) but I felt like I was annoying him because I kept asking him to do stuff. We were supposed to do something new years eve but he said he was sick and I stopped texting him after that and haven't heard anything from him since then. I figured if he wants to he knows how to get a hold of me, I pretty much did everything I could. Just disappointed about the whole thing.
          yea, I did just about the same thing. I mean I told him I liked him, so its not like he doesn't know. if he wants something serious I guess he'll come around. And yea when I stopped texting and calling him, I haven't heard from him since.
          [FONT="Georgia"][SIZE="5"][COLOR="plum"]Love is my message.
          ~Michael Jackson~[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

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