[yielded123]

long story short
boy liked girl
girl didnt like boy
boy made out with girl
girl didnt like him at first(he didnt know)
boy broke up with girl over myspace
girl was happy
boy made out with girl again after break up
Girl confused
girl waits till summer to text him asking why hes being a jerk
Boy said lets forget the past and move on
Girl cries
Boy moves on
Girl cant move on
Boy gets new girl
This girl is still hurt by boy
girl turned out to like boy alotttttttt

...the end.

[jns]

Girl is playing hard to get, seeing how persistent boy is. Somewhere in the middle of it boy has been persistent enough to get the girl to fall for him, but she continues to play the game one turn too many and boy has had enough and moves on. Since she fell for him, it is to her like a relationship breakup, even though they were never really a couple.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

And the moral of that story? Don't play games......

We've been talking about this today a little though threads sweet.. If you say you didn't like him, but he didn't know, yet you made out with him, ask yourself firstly why did you make out with him? Then, he wasn't exactly there for you, and then he broke up with you, so you feel jilted, used, and so you like him and then he gets you again, confuses you, and so you give him what for and he says, move on...

So, my take is he used you but you allowed him too...seeing as he didn't like him...and he knew he could get you again....and he did...then he left again, you don't like him, you like the fact that he rejected you, it makes you want him.

I agree the way I read that JNS is correct, you played the "hard to get game" as well because you weren't interested, so he played the game suggested above, fine, I'll just take...

CW

[yielded123]

Yeah, you guys are probably right. See the thing is I have a problem saying No to people, because I feel bad, and I try to just please people... And the very first time we hung out, he was like can I kiss you..and I was like uhmmm. then there was silence, then he started making out with me.I didnt want to make it awkward, and just stop ya know. so i went along with it. The next time it happend after we broke up, I was getting out of his car, and hes like what no kiss...so I felt sort of obligated to kiss him. Btw this whole "relationship" was kept between me and him because we didnt want our friends or family to know. So yeah. haha

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sooooo

The next time it happened, "after you broke up"...tell me more, tell me more What, happened then between the first time and the last time?

I'll say more after, just want to see the full picture

[yielded123]

hmm, the first time, we were in his car just hanging out, talking and listening to music...and he was like what would you say if I told you I wanted to kiss you... and I was just like uhhh... lol then we both looked into each others eyes, then he leaned in and started kissing me, then stuck his toung in my mouth, which I wasnt expecting lol...I was very uncomfortable, so I pulled away and started asking him questions like about who he used to like and stuff...then he stared making out with me again... after lunch that day, we were both late for class lol. The second time was just a pec, because he was sick, and I didnt want to make out with him again. Maybe he got the wrong idea because I told him a long time ago that I liked him, and at that moment in my life, I wasnt into him, and he probably thought I still was...anyways the last time, we were going to a school event, in which we didnt end up going. so he parked his car, and wanted to get in the back seat...i didnt want to do that, so i was just just saying lets go shopping or something. we didnt do that eather, so i was like lets just go home. Then he parked about a block away from my house, and I was getting out, and he was like what no kiss, so I gave him a goodbye kiss bc i was sortof confused at the time...and he stuck his tounge in my mouth again lol...It was just really weird, because on myspace he said I think u have the wrong idea of me...and he never really explained it. I just guessI needed sometime to like him again. idk the whole thing is just weird lol

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Mmmm....

Seems you backed off a fair bit....Seems he tried, but you didn't allow things, rather, then showing an interest....

Kissing is individual Some like French kissing some don't...

But in any event....he tried it on....you didn't go past kissing.... I think he's not ready for a commitment but thinks your okay...

CW

[yielded123]

That sounds about right too, thankyou...This helped me alottt lol im not into the whole frenchkissing thing, i think just kissing is more romantic lol

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Wait till you get older

[yielded123]

hahaha I know right? lol And if your referring to sex...that a biggg no...maybe when i get married...but my husband will most likelyhate me