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  • yielded123
    Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 33

    Long story short.

    long story short
    boy liked girl
    girl didnt like boy
    boy made out with girl
    girl didnt like him at first(he didnt know)
    boy broke up with girl over myspace
    girl was happy
    boy made out with girl again after break up
    Girl confused
    girl waits till summer to text him asking why hes being a jerk
    Boy said lets forget the past and move on
    Girl cries
    Boy moves on
    Girl cant move on
    Boy gets new girl
    This girl is still hurt by boy
    girl turned out to like boy alotttttttt

    ...the end.
    [COLOR="darkorchid"]"It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain.In time the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens,but it is never gone" Rose Kennedy[/COLOR]
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Girl is playing hard to get, seeing how persistent boy is. Somewhere in the middle of it boy has been persistent enough to get the girl to fall for him, but she continues to play the game one turn too many and boy has had enough and moves on. Since she fell for him, it is to her like a relationship breakup, even though they were never really a couple.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      And the moral of that story? Don't play games......

      We've been talking about this today a little though threads sweet.. If you say you didn't like him, but he didn't know, yet you made out with him, ask yourself firstly why did you make out with him? Then, he wasn't exactly there for you, and then he broke up with you, so you feel jilted, used, and so you like him and then he gets you again, confuses you, and so you give him what for and he says, move on...

      So, my take is he used you but you allowed him too...seeing as he didn't like him...and he knew he could get you again....and he did...then he left again, you don't like him, you like the fact that he rejected you, it makes you want him.

      I agree the way I read that JNS is correct, you played the "hard to get game" as well because you weren't interested, so he played the game suggested above, fine, I'll just take...

      CW
      PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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      • yielded123
        Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 33

        Yeah, you guys are probably right. See the thing is I have a problem saying No to people, because I feel bad, and I try to just please people... And the very first time we hung out, he was like can I kiss you..and I was like uhmmm. then there was silence, then he started making out with me.I didnt want to make it awkward, and just stop ya know. so i went along with it. The next time it happend after we broke up, I was getting out of his car, and hes like what no kiss...so I felt sort of obligated to kiss him. Btw this whole "relationship" was kept between me and him because we didnt want our friends or family to know. So yeah. haha
        [COLOR="darkorchid"]"It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain.In time the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens,but it is never gone" Rose Kennedy[/COLOR]

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        • CHANDLERS WISH
          • Mar 2008
          • 22440

          Sooooo

          The next time it happened, "after you broke up"...tell me more, tell me more What, happened then between the first time and the last time?

          I'll say more after, just want to see the full picture
          PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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          • yielded123
            Member
            • Dec 2010
            • 33

            hmm, the first time, we were in his car just hanging out, talking and listening to music...and he was like what would you say if I told you I wanted to kiss you... and I was just like uhhh... lol then we both looked into each others eyes, then he leaned in and started kissing me, then stuck his toung in my mouth, which I wasnt expecting lol...I was very uncomfortable, so I pulled away and started asking him questions like about who he used to like and stuff...then he stared making out with me again... after lunch that day, we were both late for class lol. The second time was just a pec, because he was sick, and I didnt want to make out with him again. Maybe he got the wrong idea because I told him a long time ago that I liked him, and at that moment in my life, I wasnt into him, and he probably thought I still was...anyways the last time, we were going to a school event, in which we didnt end up going. so he parked his car, and wanted to get in the back seat...i didnt want to do that, so i was just just saying lets go shopping or something. we didnt do that eather, so i was like lets just go home. Then he parked about a block away from my house, and I was getting out, and he was like what no kiss, so I gave him a goodbye kiss bc i was sortof confused at the time...and he stuck his tounge in my mouth again lol...It was just really weird, because on myspace he said I think u have the wrong idea of me...and he never really explained it. I just guessI needed sometime to like him again. idk the whole thing is just weird lol
            [COLOR="darkorchid"]"It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain.In time the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens,but it is never gone" Rose Kennedy[/COLOR]

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            • CHANDLERS WISH
              • Mar 2008
              • 22440

              Mmmm....

              Seems you backed off a fair bit....Seems he tried, but you didn't allow things, rather, then showing an interest....

              Kissing is individual Some like French kissing some don't...

              But in any event....he tried it on....you didn't go past kissing.... I think he's not ready for a commitment but thinks your okay...

              CW
              PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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              • yielded123
                Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 33

                That sounds about right too, thankyou...This helped me alottt lol im not into the whole frenchkissing thing, i think just kissing is more romantic lol
                [COLOR="darkorchid"]"It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain.In time the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens,but it is never gone" Rose Kennedy[/COLOR]

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                • CHANDLERS WISH
                  • Mar 2008
                  • 22440

                  Wait till you get older
                  PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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                  • yielded123
                    Member
                    • Dec 2010
                    • 33

                    hahaha I know right? lol And if your referring to sex...that a biggg no...maybe when i get married...but my husband will most likelyhate me
                    [COLOR="darkorchid"]"It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain.In time the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens,but it is never gone" Rose Kennedy[/COLOR]

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