[Guest]

has anyone else ever suffered from this? it seems to me that all i can manage to do is become hopelessly infatuated with girls i can't have. and does this happen to girls too?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

When you say "you can't have" you can actually....but, I bet the girls you are trying to obtain, act like princesses, and expect and want everything

As much as girls, fall for the "type" who have girls swarming after them, bad boys.....

It means, that your not ready to look deeper, and deeply into a person, the innerself of a person and get to know them, and like THEM...

CW

[Guest]

When you say "you can't have" you can actually....but, I bet the girls you are trying to obtain, act like princesses, and expect and want everything

probably, but 9 out 10 girls are like that i think.

It means, that your not ready to look deeper, and deeply into a person, the innerself of a person and get to know them, and like THEM...

CW

are you saying that about me?

if so, how do i go about doing that?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Not really, I think there is certainly a good percentage, that see picket fence, but he has to be able to afford to pay for my hairdresser and my nails Spoilt at home? Or going through an identity problem? Or, have their visions set on using a man, their sexuality to gain financially....

In any event, that's not a soul is it, someone who will love you.....so you don't really want that do you?

I actually probably meant that in general....but included you, because if your stating you can't attain that type of woman, then your viewing the outside of a woman.....only....

Exactly as I stated...Take each person and tell yourself that you will not look on the outside, instead, you will focus and concentrate on talking, getting to know the person on the inside...

You'll be amazed at the connections, the same interests, morals, respect, things that will come out from those conversations and you'll see clearer that finding the inner person of others, you'll find the inner person of yourself

CW