[jen50]

my b/f likes to wear my bra & panties when we have sex. i know it's wrong and told him it's not natural for a guy to wear womens underwear but he said it turns him o
anybody with advice ?
jen

[LuciaLucia]

Hi Jen50,

Not going to lie, my jaw literally dropped a little.....!!!

Have you asked him why/what is that turns him on? Maybe its the feel of the fabric, more so than him wearing female lingerie...so maybe you could work in fabric elements to your sex life?

If you are in love with him and think you can tolerate, then by all means, try to accept it, I mean afterall, we all have our turn ons .... But if it has you questioning him/or even to go as far as his sexuality, then you really need to talk with him about it!!

Good luck!

[rcoreyus]

Men with a fetish for wearing womens' clothes is fairly common. No idea why. Has nothing to do with whether he is gay or not. Its really up to you if you are comfortable with this.

[asiangrace]

A lot of men have this kind of fetish. I agree with rcoreyus, it has nothing to do with being gay or not. It's a fetish like if someone had a foot fetish, medical fetish, etc... I would not worry about it too much! If it makes you uncomfortable, just let him know in a non-conscending way!