[amyjo]

me and the guy i'm with got in a fight. like we were always seeming to fight and i was starting to get really tired of it. so i told him that i was getting fed up with it and he started going off about how he will change and we wont fight anymore and basically was like begging me to change my mind and give him another chance. but its like i was always giving him 2nd chances and i was getting tired of it. so i toook a little time and space to think about things. he sorta just talked me back into giving it another try.. And ever since then hes always being super nice and cheerful. he buys me things all the time and says he does it because it makes him happy too. and he says he does those things because he doesnt wanna end up like his parents who fight all the time. So hes constantly spending money on me, and we never fight anymore.... but he doesnt seem to have his own opinion on things. he always just does whatever i do or want or think. if i say something then he just agrees with me. or i'll ask him what he wants to do and he always just says its up to me and that he doesnt care. hes always being super happy and the moment i get sad or upset hes trying so hard to get me happy again.

its great to be happy all the time and its good he wants to buy me things and such...but sometimes i feel annoyed by it. like he treatts me like im his world...so i feel aweful for being annoyed by it. hes constantly telling me how much he loves me too, like im going to forget or something. hes always reminding me and it gets annoying. like i love him but im getting frusturated. Other guys will try talking to me and i will say hi and whatever and i feel like it makes me happy because there something new. its not annoying or boring anymore. me and the guy im with always do the same thing and it gets boring.

what doi do about this??? i feel like a bad person for feeling this way but i cant help it i guess. what am i feeling? is this normal? what do i do??

[rcoreyus]

Try to act as nicely to him as he is trying to be to you. Do nice things for him, tell him you love him.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It seems he's prepared to compromise, he has kept his word after you gave him another chance but I'm thinking your not in love with him, so your not accepting this change at all, you want something new but your feeling guilty to let him go as there is nothing you can use this time to get out of it.

He's obviously had a hard life and needs love...He's giving it to you and like corey stated, it seems your not giving it back.

He compromised, you compromise If your stuck in a rut of bordom? Do something about it, think of some adventurous things you can do, google what's around your area, change your patterns and see if you can open up and love him back.

CW

[amyjo]

exactly CW, exactly! thank you